ok, now there is this girl and i thought she was my friend but one day all of they sudden, she acted totaly different-mean different. and today i went on AIM and her first name starts with a J and mine starts with an A, so im doin anitials. conversation: J-hi. A-hi. J- can i ask u somethin?". A-sure, anything. J- wellll....
and then she just signed off.
She is treatin me like a peice of sh*t and i dont want to be rude back because well, i just havent been mean yet. i might start, just to let her know that i dont give a sh*t about her. she is a wana-be that thinks she is cool. wut do u THINK is bothering her?
2007-05-15 13:41:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
family problems?
2007-05-15 13:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no telling 'what' is wrong with her. If you think she is your friend, then you should be able to talk to her. You have to know and settle in your heart why she is treating you so badly. Why can't you just 'talk to her'? The wrong thing to do on your part - is to reciprocate her actions. Two wrongs don't make a right - you have to be the bigger person -otherwise, you'll never know what the problem is. She might really need you. Be sensitive to her needs. Approach her with compassion and some kindness. Honey gets more respect than vinegar. And if you are desiring to keep her as a friend - you'll definitely be the better person if you just calmly and gently find out what's wrong. Ask her out for a soda or send her a nice card letting her know you care about her. People often hide the real truth when something is bothering them and it can be hard to talk about. You just never know. So, - go easy on her - but give her a chance to tell you without you treating her badly. I just have this thing about people I care about - people -period - I never want to hurt anyone because one day - it will come back to you - whatever you send out - it will come back - please send her some love -she obviously needs it, and you are a friend - and able to give. Good luck to you.
2007-05-15 20:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to consider is from her pov, perhaps that has nothing to do with you. The next time you get a chance to talk to her, ask her whats wrong... and if she doesn't respond, let it slide, let her know you are there for her if and when she needs to talk. People can be effected from so many different angles, we end up taking it out on the wrong people, perhaps like your friend. It could be parents, a guy she liked who turned her down, her goldfish died... the only way you'll know is if you show her she can still trust you.
2007-05-15 20:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by seanied2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just trying 2 get into the cool crowd and doesnt think your cool material or whatever.shes just trying 2 be rude or she might not have been supposed 2 be on the AIM so she got in trouble im not sure but you should talk 2 her and if she blows you off then 4get her thats not a real friend.or maybe she just has been going through some rough time sat home just talk 2 her about it and do it in person so she cant log off lol jp
2007-05-15 20:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it might be that she herd a rumor, or something worse but if I were you I would go and confront her and ask her why she has been treating you like crap. If she doesn't want to talk about it and everything when you do just walk away and say I tried to her and maybe she will feel bad and come and talk then but if she doesn't you have other friends, Good luck I hope all goes well
2007-05-15 20:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've heard of people wanting to be by themselves but thats wrong and its rude. tell her that if wants to be by herself she doesnt need to but you out. i give my friends a day to them selves but a week is out of the question. tak to her about manners but dont give her what she's been given you because that called festering and festerin doesnt die off so easy.
the problem wit her?
posibly one of the following.:
self indulge, stress, a phase(mental correction), and/or brain fart.
try and stay positive for her-yet ask of anything you can do or help with thats dirt cheep. a friend should not be degected
2007-05-15 20:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Wesley!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her. If she doesn't want to talk or ask you what she was going to ask you in the first place, then forget about it. Be the bigger person and don't be rude about it. I think it was the question that she was going to ask you that is bothering her like that. Try not to be mean about it, but talk to her.
2007-05-15 20:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by TragicLoveEnding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theirs probably somthing bothering her so sit her down and ask her whats bothering her dont be mean but be firm about it even if you dont hava an aswer to her problem it comforting to let sombody know whats wrong.
p.s j.a lol jack a** sorry not makin fun of you
2007-05-15 21:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by tamari goke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's prolly having problems at home or some one is being mean to her. if you be mean back she might explode on you and be meaner. just tell her that if she's going to be rude she can stay the hell away from you b/c u don't wanna put up with it.
2007-05-15 20:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure what is bothering her. but you should probably pray about it. peace be still. in other words calm yourself take a breather. if she is not treating with sisterly love then you still keep your peace and joy ; and you stay still don't do anything that may be unloving just because she did. let god deal with it.
god bless
2007-05-15 20:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by richard l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stoup to her level, I would just not have anymore contact with her. You don't need a friend like that. Find some new friends.
2007-05-15 20:48:42 · answer #11 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋