My husband moved to Maryland for a job, he was emailing other women, had a cyber affiar, and had a myspace page which he listed himself as single. He decided that he wanted a divorce within a week and said that he wasn't in love with me anymore. Were both 24yrs. I was depressed and sad for about 2 months, calling him asking him why, he treated me like crap. 2 weeks ago I texted and i said that this will be the last time he will hear from me. I realize that life is too short, im young, and I will be getting my bachelors degree in December of this year. Its his loss, not mine. He came back this past weekend for mother day and i didnt call him, his mother told me that he asked if she had told me that he was here because I would probably call him. I didn't, so he asked her again and she asked him why would i called him, "he didnt want me anymore", i guess he was hoping i would chase him again. If he didnt want me, why would he asked if i knew he was in town so i would chase him again????
2007-05-15 12:23:08 · 17 answers · asked by MovingOnWithMyLife..Your Loss! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You think he will try to call me, because I will not answer the phone....!!!
2007-05-15 12:29:41 · update #1
I'm feeling all of your answers. Life is too short and I need to move on like everyone is saying. Besides...things can only go up from here.
2007-05-15 12:49:14 · update #2
I'm not sure why he would want to know other than wondering if you knew and if you kept your promise. I agree with you. You are young and it is time to move on. You deserve to treated with respect and you do have your whole life ahead of you. It's definitely his loss. One day, he'll probably realise how immature he acted. Regardless of whether you are with him or not, I'm sure you'll find happiness one day. Keep your chin up and you'll be fine. Good luck!
2007-05-15 12:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's asking about you doesn't mean that he wants to get back with you. Even if he is feeling regrets, don't turn around and persue him on that hope. If he knows he screwed up, then he'll need to come to you and work to get you back.
Your doing the right thing moving on. You are so young, and you still have an entire life ahead of you full of hopefull posibilities. When you got married you probably didn't think about things going south so quickly. But Don't chase after him. If you do, you'll end up hurt more.
2007-05-15 12:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kellie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry mate, yet you're asking a collection of strangers a thank you to easily right fix your marriage. None individuals have met your spouse, so I presume you already know her greater useful than us. If after 14 years you won't be in a position to come to a decision the place you have been lacking, you may besides permit her bypass. It feels like she has been pissed at you for a protracted time, women folk do not basically attain that degree over evening. She has theory it with the aid of, and made a variety, so it is going to take lots of attempt from you to repair what you broke. i might commence with the aid of remembering you're companions, and proportion plenty greater of the prevalent jobs around the domicile, and cope along with her like a princess. i don't mean spending huge $$ on her, I mean do not cope along with her like a blend of air purifier, toddler minder, cook dinner and your mom. She is a female in her very own precise, working two times the hours which you do. %. up some slack, supply her time to do her very own ingredient, and spend greater time at the same time. people get so wrapped up in lifestyles, they forget to stay. And that sucks. *** candy MILDRED IS in the domicile...crawl INTO HER PLAYPEN ***
2016-11-23 15:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and I can tell you with 100% certainty, that any guy who would act like this IS A LOSER FOR LIFE!!!
Get away from him, stay away from him, and get some counselling to find out why you think so little of yourself that you think you don't deserve better than that.
He's an idiot.
He's a jerk.
He's an asshole.
Why do you want that for yourself?
Even if he begs to come back, he's going to do it again someday, most likely after you have a couple kids.
Is that what you want? You've been forewarned.
2007-05-15 12:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is men for uthe think u will chase after they will pertend they have another women but he is lieing to u girl move on you are very young find another man and yall well have a wonderfull life together ur man is just a foul like lilkeke said he is a jackass
2007-05-15 12:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lilcutie_Daboh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the one who messed up not you. It sounds like he had what he wanted and is wanting to know if you would take him back. He messed up like you said you are young life is to short his decision to divorce. Continue your education and move on and I hope you find happiness again.
2007-05-15 12:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay from my observation here is whats going on....
He is enjoying the moment when you call him because he feels wanted....but he doesn't want to be with you. I think his maturity hasn't caught up with his age.
So I'll say, feel lucky that a person who doesn't know what he wants, has left for worse giving you an opportunity to better yourself and find a good person....
Also learn from this experience....
Remember one thing....good decision comes from experience and experience comes from bad decisions
2007-05-15 12:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys that dress in mens cloting will always be boys. Of course he asked about you and he will coniune to ask about you every time he comes around!! When you close that door close it and don't look back and dont text him or call him ir take his calls your life is ahead of you and not behind you!
2007-05-15 12:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very mature woman that showed great restraint,you will be so glad you stood up to him and without speaking said,your *** cant treat me like that,gonna be a lucky guy come along one day
2007-05-15 12:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by wahoowa6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl but he is a cheater. AND cheaters want to have someone else yet keep you from moving on or finding someone else. My ex wife did the exact same thing
2007-05-15 12:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋