care so much about a girls body and having s.e.x with her? Can't they think of anything else? Like how pretty her smile is, or "wow, she did her hair nice just for me..." Why do they think about nasty things having to do with girls!!?!!
2007-05-15 11:34:09 · 24 answers · asked by ~♥Ange♥~ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
...I know this doesn't have much to do with cultures and groups but I can't change it.
2007-05-15 11:35:00 · update #1
philo-I never said a great body and s.e.x are bad. I just don't like it when I'm talking with a dude and he's staring at my b.o.o.b.s. (sorry to be so blunt)...can't he look me in my eyes instead?
2007-05-15 11:42:17 · update #2
Not ALL guys think like that, but alot do...especially in the teenage years.
Find a guy that digs you for you, not just sex. They are out there.
2007-05-15 11:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alas, testosterone (which most men have in spades) causes intense sexual feelings. Guys with high testosterone will think about sex constantly. It's not a moral failing, it's a chemical reality. Women, meanwhile, tend to have much lower levels of testosterone and higher levels of estrogen -- which is the "relationship" hormone. Men think sex, women think bonding. It's a chemical reality. Hopefully, in the midst of all this, people of both genders can find a way to respect one another long enough to make a meaningful and mutually satisfying connection.
2007-05-15 18:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by anamchara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My theory is that it's an evolution thing...the males that had the most interest in mating are the ones that reproduced the most and produced the most offspring, and passed those genes down to those offspring.
And while there might be some guys that only care about that, most of us do appreciate the many varied positive aspects of the women we love.
2007-05-15 18:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dave W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the way the media portrays women...as sex objects. Every night, cable stations have "Girls Gone Wild" commercials; internet is filled with porn ads. Even I was while browsing for a new profile to use on MySpace, there lies more sex and dating ads.
If the guy only thinks about that, then you need to find someone that cares about you and not your body.
2007-05-15 18:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys think like that..., some man doesn't only care so much about a girls body and having s.e.x with her.... that's relative...
2007-05-15 18:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Flor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good body is nice to look at. Sex is awesome. Yes, we can think of other things. What's so nasty about great bodies and sex?
2007-05-15 18:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause half the time, guys think with their penis and not their brains...And they only become completely mature after the age of like 22, maybe even older..depends on the guy. Us girls can't really do anything to change that!
2007-05-15 18:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Nika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones, mainly.
If you want a serious man who loves you for every part of you, wait till you are about 25, then people start to get serious with relationships.
2007-05-15 18:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys are visual beings and natrually have stronger hormones then women. But not all are like that. Just most
2007-05-15 18:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, they just can't help it. Nice guys do notice other things but there hormones get in the way.
2007-05-15 18:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by The girl in pink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋