I have a problem. I masturbate too much. I have even found a way to do it in a room with people in it.(don't ask). I have done it in school even. help me. I am even masturbating right now. and dont tell me to go to a doctor or a therapist. i need help
2007-05-15 11:32:47 · 15 answers · asked by Harold F 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I have not been caught yet but i feel i will in the future if i don,t stop
2007-05-15 11:34:01 · update #1
I'm not sure if you're serious or not?!?!?!
Masturbating is totally normal. However, if you find yourself doing it all the time and in public places then it seems like you should get some help. Do you want to be grouped with the likes of Pee Wee Herman and George Michaels? After reading your other questions it is obvious you spend too much time thinking about sex, penis size, etc. I recommend masturbating in moderation and getting another hobby. I'm not sure why you won't consider seeing a doctor or psychiatrist. They are best suited to help you. Good luck!
2007-05-15 11:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. That is pretty serious - Well a doctor or a therapist can resolve your problem.. and it's all confidential so I wouldn't be ashamed other people have the same problem - Try and think of more important things that will put your mind off sexual things.. Find a new hobby you like and that will cut down how much you masturbate.. Hope that's OK adive ? Good Luck x
2007-05-15 11:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ache Will Do B-) ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may think you have not been "caught" but I bet someone has seen you or was aware of what you were doing. Certainly not safe for you to do it in public areas, you could be arrested which would be embarrassing, and if you are old enough, could be charged with a misdomeanor or even a felony in some places. Get your jollies at home in private, the more you do it in public the more you will try and get away with it. Ain't worth it dude, you can beat off for the next 50 years, but would be a lot better to do it outside of prison or jail!
2007-05-15 16:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a chance that you are doing it to relieve anxiety. Orgasm does produce a lot of relief and endorphins that can temporarily reduce anxiety. You might want to check out if you have something like Generalized Anxiety Disorder or the like and have a doctor or therapist work with you on that issue. Try relaxation therapy, deep diaphragmatic breathing and see if some other technique helps you reduce the amount of time you spend masturbating.
2007-05-15 11:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by sonofstar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude you need to lock that wang up!! or if it makes you happy find someone to satisfy your cravings.. just try to hold off in public places from now on.. that could get a little uncomfortable if anyone were to see
2007-05-15 11:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a Nympho girl friend or cut your hands off
2007-05-15 11:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by whatthefudgymudgy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a habit just like anything else...biting nails etc.....maybe you do it when you feel stressed? are you doing it for enjoyment or out of habit/stress.......
if you wanna do it, then do it but tell yourself you can't do it in public, you can get in big trouble for public indecency.
can't believe i answered this question LOL
2007-05-15 11:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Harry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's completely normal. you're probably just going through a phase. just stop yourself in public and only do i tin a private place.
2007-05-15 11:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ellen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW - I don't know how old you are but if sex is constantly on your mind - maybe you should find yourself a girlfriend.
2007-05-15 11:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by jessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAROLD,
THIS IS DEFINITELY NOT SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE IN PUBLIC. SEE A PSYCHOTHERAPIST FOR HELP WITH THIS HABIT.
2007-05-15 11:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Albert, DDS, (USA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋