2007-05-15 11:17:47 · 17 answers · asked by CUTE MAMA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A member of what? By the way she's not worth it. Change the number.
2007-05-15 11:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's the last person to call on your phone, are you in a country or area where *69 works? That will give you her number. You can call her with that number.
And then say what? What is she a member of? A family? A club? A team?
Your husband's the cheater. She's just the other half of a cheating episode or relationship. If she keeps calling him, she will eventually get in touch with him and perhaps you want to head her off at the pass. If there's some sort of pregnancy (not yours) on the horizon, that could prove interesting but whatever is coming, you will find out about it sooner or later. If he's still cheating, you can easily get rid of him. Just dump him - forget about her.
2007-05-15 18:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A member of what? Star #69 on the phone will call her right back, then you can talk to her all you want.
That being said, why would you want to talk to her? Nothing good can come from it. Either have the phone company block her calls, or get your number changed. Even if you told her not to call anymore, that probably won't stop her. Clearly she knows about you and doesn't care what you think.
You can also demand your husband tell you her phone number, he will do that if he really want to stay with you. If he doesn't...well then he would rather be with her. Better to know now than later.
Whatever you do don't call the police. Only a moron would suggest that or do it. They won't help you and it is absurd to ask them too. That isn't their job.
2007-05-15 18:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With a member of what? Change your 'phone number to an unlisted one - it cost's a bit more on your monthly telephone bill, but it would be well worth it. She is obviously trying to get you all worked-up, and she is succeeding. Does your husband know about her calls? Maybe you should let him tell her, the next time she calls, that he is no longer interested- put the conversation on speaker so she knows that you are in the room too. Forget about "finding" her -she's just a sl*t who likes to sleep with married men. I would advise you to concentrate on trying to salvage your marriage if that's what you want. Couple's counseling seems to be in order. Best of luck to you.
2007-05-15 18:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her when she calls next time, and tell her that you will file a lawsuit against her for "Alienation of Affection". Tell your husband the same thing. In many US states it's still on the law books. It is expensive for an adulteress, and it may get her to stop in a hurry. There are private detectives who could find her in a hurry. I wonder if she is so ugly that she can't find herself a single man???
2007-05-15 18:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by HSB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a member of what? Do you have caller ID, thats where I'd start unless shes blocking her #. Get your husband to talk. Tell him to talk, or else your walking.
2007-05-15 18:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A member of What???
She had no loyalty to you, your husband did. He is the one that you need to go after.
2007-05-15 18:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, if your husband called her through his cell phone, try to look at his messages or voicemail. You can even look at her phone number and her name on his phone.
2007-05-15 18:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to find her? Was your husband so innocent she forced him to do her? Use your energy on the loser you married and throw him out on his dirty @ss.
2007-05-15 19:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean HIS member?
2007-05-15 18:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋