2007-05-15 09:17:14 · 58 answers · asked by neri r 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yes you should they may get mad but in 3-4 months you are not gonna be able to hide a bulging stomach and throwing up every morning....best tell them now and if you and your parents decide not to keep the baby then go ahead and be considering adoption! good luck
2007-05-15 09:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by thatgurl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well since I am sure that they are going to find out once you get big I would suggest telling them. They cant do anything to you. All they can do if they are really mad is tell you to get an abortion or adopt your baby out. And honestly you should not get an abortion. You chose to have sex and now you should choose to raise the baby, or give it to someone who cannot have their own children. I am not saying that you would do either I am just saying that you should do what you want with your baby and dont let your parents make you do anything you dont wanna do. I got pregnant when my ex husband was only 15 and when I had him he was 16. And he was the best dad ever. So dont think that just because you are young that you cant do it. But do not drop out of school, I graduated and was so happy that my baby boy was there to see his mom graduate. Some people look down on that but its your life not theirs!!
2007-05-15 09:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I think you should tell your parents because being pregnant is an emotional time for a young lady and even for an adult. I mean I had my first child at 23 and i needed my mom right there with me. It's nice to have someone there to help support you emotionally. Especially your mom. Me and my mom didn't have the best relationship until I got pregnant. Then our relationship became great because I NEEDED her. I needed that advice that only she could give me seeing as though she was pregnant 5 times! So having someone especially your family there by your side helps your pregnancy go along graciously and almost perfect!
2007-05-15 09:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by shaneen2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES absolutetly tell your parents- Unless you are living in a situation where you have reason to fear physical harm from them... Your parents will help and support you to make the best decision for you at this time. How very sad that you should be pregnant so young... I'm sure the stress and uncertianty of it all can't be an easy thing for you. Best wishes.
2007-05-15 09:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by annathespian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they will probably figure it out when you look like you swallowed a beach ball and, if not then, then when there's a screaming baby in your arms.
But, seriously, yes, you need to tell you parents now. You are not able to raise a baby and need to arrange for the baby to be put up for adoption. And you need to learn about birth control. You are absolutely not mature enough to handle this. The mere fact that you got pregnant this young proves it.
2007-05-15 09:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by leaptad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell your parents!
Although this will be one of the hardest things you ever do. If you are more comfortable talking with your mother, sit her down and tell her first. And then after the shock, she can help you tell your father, or vice versa. But they are your parents and will support you and help you through this difficult situation. Your parents can help you decide what is best for you and your baby. You must also see an obgyn as soon as possible.
My prayers are with you! Good Luck!
2007-05-15 09:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by michelle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Definately, they would find out sometime and I'm sure they'd rather hear it from you. Plus they can help you through the hard times. And please don't get abortion if you are considering it. Instead, give it up for adoption or have your parents raise it because I am 14 too and know there is no way someone our age could raise a child.
2007-05-15 09:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, this is something you do not want to handle on your own. Im only 10 years older than you, but I know so much more now than I did at 14, so imagine how much more your parents know. They can help you make decisions and deal with your feelings and emotions as well as medical care
2007-05-15 09:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by dreasib 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your parents. Its gonna be hard for both them and you, but it will be better in the long run. Your gonna have some very important decisions to make, and you will handle it a lot better if you have your parents going through it with you. Good luck.
2007-05-15 10:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you will need their support. Don't put it off- it's important for you to see a doctor soon. At 14, your body needs special care during pregnancy.
When you tell them, make sure you have their full attention, acknowledge that you made a mistake, and emphasize that you know it's time to take responsibility for yourself, your baby, and your sexuality. They'll be shocked at first, and there's no telling exactly how they will react, but hopefully they'll get behind you.
If they threaten to kick you out, call this number: 800-395-HELP.
Email me any time.
2007-05-15 09:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else can you do without your parent when you are only 14 yr old? Tell them as soon as possible, so you can get the help you need.
Anyone who are willing and can you help need your parents' permission, it just in case something goes wrong again.
2007-05-15 09:24:49 · answer #11 · answered by judy06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋