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2007-05-15 08:26:31 · 31 answers · asked by Dylan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, it's not wrong to be gay. But it can be very difficult sometimes, often lonely and even dangerous. My husband and I both grew up in Oklahoma in the heart of the bible belt where being gay can get you beat up or even killed. You always have to be careful. But we have been together for more than 25 years, and we love each other and we will take care of each other until we die. Love is a wonderful thing. Even though many people, especially Christians, will tell you being gay is sinful, I can tell you from my own experience that loving someone with all your heart and sharing that love is the greatest experience a person can ever hope for. God loves each and every one of us, and Christ told us to share that love with others. So don't let religious bigots or anyone else tell you that being gay is wrong. You have to follow your own heart and listen to that still small voice of God inside urging you to be your best and to love others with all your heart. Whether a person is gay or straight, there is a potential to harm others by seeking only selfish love. But if you find true love - you will see that love is all about giving to others and sharing your talents and abilities.
2007-05-15 08:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by panther6970 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, my Child, it is Not, and don't you let anyone tell you it is. You are what you are. Now you have to make something of the person you are. You can either be a good person or a bad one.
Be a good person. Show the World that being Gay isn't a horrible thing, that you can be responsible and proud of yourself.
Don't let people use the Bible against you. God loves while Man hates. Love yourself and Love others. Be kind to others and show them that Love.
You can be whatever you want to be. You just have to choose.
It's not wrong to be Gay, but it is wrong not to try.
Blessings.
2007-05-15 15:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You went to the wrong site to have that question answered. You know that most of the people here will tell you that it is ok to be gay. I see many of them trashing Christianity in the process. Sounds like hipocrocy to me. Anyways, if you have a question that important, I would encourage you to ask God himself. Can't go wrong with that. I would suggest that you pray and ask Him. He will let you know. I would also encourage you to look in the Bible. Most people who have never actually read it would say that God hates gays. Well, I have read it and I can tell you that God loves all people and wants a relationship with them. It is not people that God hates, it is sin. God made things to be a certain way on this earth. But He also gave us free will. We can choose to choose Him or not. But we cannot choose not to make a choice. The Bible says "those that are not with me (Jesus) are against me". Ask Jesus to come into your life and I promise you that He wil do that and be the best friend you can imagine having.
2007-05-15 17:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by AK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it is wrong to hate someone for being gay
2007-05-15 15:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
its only wrong to let others make you feel guilty about it.
we are a part of nature weve been here as long as the human race has .
were not peadophiles ,child molestor or monsters.
We have jobs ,contribute to society and are a part of families
brothers sisters sons and daughters.
some even have religion
in short were just normal people
with better dress sense
2007-05-15 15:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by dregj 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong or right, it's not a moral definer, it just is, like hair or eye colour.
It may be less common, but that doesn't make it wrong.
2007-05-15 17:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, there is no reason why being gay is wrong
2007-05-15 16:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anybody that tells you that it is wrong to be gay is in fact wrong, and perhaps secretly gay.
2007-05-15 17:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong for you to be happy? We are put on this earth to be happy, and not woryy what others say. If you are gay be happy with it and do not feel you are wrong.
2007-05-15 15:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by kanei 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This really shouldn't be a question.
Is it wrong to be short?
Is it wrong to have blue eyes?
Is it wrong to have hair on your arms?
Genetics and God dealt the cards.
Does God make mistakes?
2007-05-15 15:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋