we are both getting discouraged and we havent made any moves because the other friends we hang out with might not approve or accept it shall i give up any hope of ever being together i feel like i am losing him and thats what i didnt want...
2007-05-15 08:13:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can definitely understand where you're coming from, and if you really care for each other, then I say go for it. You're probably both scared because you don't want to lose your friendship. But I can tell you from experience that getting involved with your best friend is the best way! It's worth the risk! And if you let everyone around you dictate what you do, then you'll never be really happy, because the choices you make will never be yours. Eventually, you have to say, "I either take this risk, or live forever with regret."
Don't be afraid of losing the friendship-that's living with the assumption that this relationship won't work out...live optimistically!
It will take time for your friends to get adjusted to it, but if they really care for you, they will support you. Give them some elbow room to get used to seeing you guys as a couple and not just as pals.
2007-05-15 08:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Constellation 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to build a strong, healthy relationship is with someone you can be friends with. It doesn't really matter whether ppl approve or not because you are not in a relationship with them.
2007-05-15 08:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by SloanMercy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested in dating him or all these other friends? What a silly question. If this guy is the one you could marry, why would you weigh the thoughts of others?
2007-05-15 08:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the others besides you and him dont agree with you to hooking up then they aren't really your friends and why does it matter to them its no them hooking up!
Good luck with it and i hope everything works out!
2007-05-15 08:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kelsey_blair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk to her, then slightly start moving around and if she likes you then she will appreciate the fact that you made the first move and that you kissed her
2007-05-15 08:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by hannah_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about other people? You and him count. If you don't care enough to do something about it you don't deserve to be together.
2007-05-15 08:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SAY GO FOR IT . NOBODY SHOULD GO THROUGH LIFE WONDERING WHAT IF. AND IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE DO IT. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOME CRITICS WHO THINKS THEY KNOW BEST BUT USUALLY THEY DONT.
2007-05-15 08:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋