I have a crush on my professor, and I know nothing will happen between the 2 of us..He is married...It's just a big crush and a feeling..I know I will get over it..Anyhow, I will have an interview with him alone this upcoming Friday, and I am so nervous!! This will be the first time that we will be alone in a room..I'm scared that I might mess up my interview and look stupid..help..What should I do?? What if I get so nervous enough that I dont know what to say during the interview??
2007-05-15 08:09:57 · 10 answers · asked by cherryblossom 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i need a serious answer
2007-05-15 08:15:26 · update #1
I'm not doing anything..Like I said, it's just a feeling..I won't do anything to destroy their marriage..I'm not evil and stupid...
2007-05-15 08:19:57 · update #2
I'm aware that the first 2 answerers(?) are joking.
2007-05-15 08:32:00 · update #3
Honestly, just don't think about that, suck it up and go do what you need to do. It'll be good practice for the real world. I can't even count the times where I've had to present/talk in front of people and I had no desire to do so. I just take a deep breath, say to myself that it'll be over in 30 minutes or so and go do what you need to do and take care of your business. Don't worry about tripping up or sounding nervous -- be confident and you'll be fine.
2007-05-15 08:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Gallo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We all go through this at your age but remember how responsible and how much of an adult you are. Dress and act like a professional. Every interview helps for the next time you must face someone in a difficult situation.
You may want to consider why you have romantic feelings for a man who is older and married. Is he a replacement father figure? I see lots of women involved with older men for just that reason. When you're thinking of becoming involved, remember, the person should feel just like your very best friend and nothing should be embarrassing. The married man is the worst catch of all. Many will never divorce or leave the relationship. Best of luck on the interview. He could lose his job if he becomes involved with a student too.
2007-05-15 08:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say the usual 'imagine him naked' response but that may not be the best option for you.
Focus on the goal and objectives you want to accomplish from whatever this interviewed position can give you. Realize that they can help you long after the professor isn't around. If you can do this, you should be fine. Good luck!
2007-05-15 08:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by abstractview 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him straight out that you're sorry in advance, you just feel a bit nervous about the interview. This way if you screw up or don't know what to say, it's understandable.
2007-05-15 08:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get it out of your chest. Tell him something within these lines:
"I'm sorry, I am very nervous, I have a teacher crush on you, and I dont think I can focus, please understand. I dont mean to disrespect you"
Maybe telling him how you feel will make you feel more comfortable and switch things around. Then maybe if he feel uncomfortable he will get all confused and you can ace the test.. LOL
2007-05-15 08:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that is only natural, it has happened to me also.
Just be yourself and don't dress inappropriately.
I wish you good luck with the interview!
IMO the other two answers were not helpful at all.
2007-05-15 08:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by ask away 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be professional about it and forget your feelings for him for a sec. turn off the attraction button and turn on the professional side of you. don't mess this up for your future relies on this one. be cool about it. good luck!
2007-05-15 09:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is married please don't ruin his wife's joy and his relationship. What God has joined together, let no one put assunder. You wouldn't want any woman dating your husband if you get married, would you?
2007-05-15 08:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Married! HA! If you're hot, I say go for it. Dress really sexy for your interview and try to kiss him as SOON as you walk in. Good luck!
2007-05-15 08:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
that's just transferrence. it goes away after you confront it.
2007-05-15 09:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by !@#%&! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋