My husband n I have divorced and then gotten back together, 3 kids, I came back cause things were supose to be different he even acted differently, I almost left again fell for it again, Dec. he had a heart attack so, I didn't leave, then possible lung cancer. I am feeling num. Jan. another situation where he didn't defend me history of it plus more, I am not perfect by no means. He seems more humble. He can tell I am num and distant n thats usually when he becomes this way. I am not saying hes a bad person but I'v just been hurt so many times by him, roller coaster ride for us both.I stopped lashing out several years ago. I feel tired and very num, and broken. The last thing we went through n his reaction I couldn't believe it.H eended up pushing I understand he was angry. He had never pushed me before, Just be little, reject, heart pain. Is it possible to go forward?
hurt n confused,
~ Angel ~
2007-05-15 07:48:04 · 4 answers · asked by ~Angel~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hate to say it, but this realtionship is over. It has been over for a while now. You are both going thorugh motions that are NOT healthy & if things are becoming physical, it will only continue to escalate.
Reconcilliations the have a future are never because "things were supposed to be different". As people mature through life experience, they change, their wants, needs & desires - but ultimately the person remains the same.
Since there are children involved, you will need to make arrangements for them and make that a priority! Please take them into consideration first! You and your spouse need to know that two parents who are divorced or seperated and can at least be civil to one another are better for the children then two unhappy married parents who fight!
2007-05-15 08:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by martiek7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible but remember that he's an "ex" for a reason. Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it!
2007-05-15 14:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you may love him. but you are NOT in love. why remarry when you dont want to deal with him? dont waste anymore time seperating. stay seperate
2007-05-15 14:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont be different
dont do it again
2007-05-15 14:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋