My stupid boyfriend said i'm a butch cuz I never wear like skirts or dresses. He's a an asshole, but anyway. I wear girls clothes, I don't wear baggy clothes or anything, so he's wrong right? Maybe I should dress really revealing to teach him a lesson?
2007-05-15 06:03:57 · 22 answers · asked by Johnny's Girl 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You're right! So you're modest, so what? I've seen tons of Maury shows where the daughter is complaining about the mother being too showy begging for someone to do something about it.
Letting it all hang out sort of detracts from your respectability. Tell him, " it's not what I show that counts. It's what guys dream about seeing that counts."
He needs to go find someone who dresses for the beach everyday even in the winter and shopping at Safeway. I bet he'll get tired of her and of having every guy try to take her away from him. She would probably be the one who watches everyone to see if they're looking at her and is dissapointed if they aren't. She'd probably also be the one who doesn't ever eat real food and exercises all day.
Would a girl like her settle for your ahole boyfriend?
2007-05-15 06:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything "butch" about not wearing revealing clothing. Are you wearing clothes that are perhaps masculine, because perhaps that is what is referring to as butch?
Anyway, wear what you want, meaning what makes you feel comfortable, what is presentable (not sloppy), and what expresses your personal style. Chances are if you dress in revealing clothing to teach him a lesson, he'll achieve his goal, but you won't feel like yourself.
2007-05-15 06:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by mirabelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're describing isn't butch. Butch is when you dress head to toe in mens clothes or clothes that look like they should be mens. It just sounds like you dress modestly and conservatively. Ugh, don't dress really revealing, he'll end up liking it and wanting you to dress like that all the time. If he's such an asshole (like he sounds) then leave him. It sounds like he needs to be dating a stripper.
2007-05-15 06:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The idea of "Butch" clothing is a bit redundant. Wearing clothes that fit and are female is NOT the definition of Butch Clothes. If you were wearing his clothes, maybe he could claim it.
He's severely wrong. Trust me on this one.
Besides, if you can call him an A** to people you don't know, reconsider your feelings for him. And if he's calling you names, reconsider his respect for you.
Don't drop your standards and be you. It's all you have in life.
2007-05-15 06:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean that your butch! Then when you start wearing short skirts...He's gonna freak out...LOL! My boyfriend starts coming up with sh!t about how everybodys gonna see my a$$ and my skirts aren't even that short...I say dress revealing and teach him a lesson like you suggested.
2007-05-15 06:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by He's my world 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't wear revealing clothes, and If something is low cut I wear a tank top underneath. If you take a look at my pics you will see that I'm not "butch".
Tell the b/f to take a hike.
2007-05-15 06:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly. i don't understand if the clothing became into 'inncosistent" yet I wore this crimson dress (for a marriage celebration at a rustic club) and that i gotten a lot of interest from youthful adult males shouting and whistling: "lady in crimson! OWWW!", and it wasn't even that appealing! It became right into a polo dress for god sakes! It became into flattering to appreciate that I appeared that stable, yet kinda creepy because of the fact i became into basically 15 on the time being appeared at by applying adult males of their 20s and 30s!
2016-11-04 00:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should a) ignore him, or b) dump him if he's as much of an asshole as you claim. Do you really need our opinion on your clothing if you like it? He is probably proud of the way you look and lacks the tact and home training to come up with a better way to ask you to show off your body more.
2007-05-15 06:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not like to wear dresses or skirts either, my husband likes when I do. But I too like to be comfortable I wear jeans and a top (cute not $lutty) My husband does tell me when I ask to dress comfortably...
Maybe if you did dress provocatively and go out together he may not enjoy all of the other guys taking you in with their eyes.
2007-05-15 06:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Aimee B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would teach him a lesson but there's nothing wrong with covering yourself up! I don't dress baggy but do cover up! So I don't see anything wrong with it!
2007-05-15 06:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Maria C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋