What if your wife of 13 yrs yells out someones name...?

Question

in her sleep. It is her boyfriend of 6 yrs that she was with before me?

Answer 1

have patience and tolerance.

Keep your attitude positive.
Dont let her feel that she has taken the wrong decission of marrying u.
moreover, the more loving and caring you will be for her, the more she will think about u and a time will come that she will come to compare u with her former friend and she will accept the reality that u r her husband and she has to live with u for the rest of her life.
but mr. for this u will have to show tolerance and show all the care and love for your wife because one of the important point to keep in view is that she is very young and young people are to be loved and cared for!!!!

Answer 2

*Hey now if she yelled it during another point in time, then I would be worried :)

.But it was just a dream, and dreams are just supressed memories or feelings etc. it's nothing that she can control...especially since she's sleeping you know?

.*So I would not fret about it, now if she starts calling your name out when you two are getting busy...then you might want to question her.

.Now say the tables were turned and you called out your ex's name while you were sleeping, would you feel your wife is in the right by getting upset about it...even though you were SLEEPING and you clearly were not in control of whatever you were dreaming about. Is that fair?.

.Most likely not.

.So excuse her from this, and take it for what it is...and move on, because it's really not a big deal.

......and if it really bothers you that much, then just let her know that you heard her yell out her ex's name, and ask her what she was dreaming about or something, but be nice about it. The last thing you want to do is "attack" her and make her feel like you're accusing her of something.

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Answer 3

If it was in her sleep, then you need to just let it go and not make a big deal about it. The mind is an amazing thing and you have no idea what she was really dreaming when she did that. Now if it happens while the two of you are making love, that is something different.

Answer 4

Nothing notta ziltch....she was having a dream, thats all.

DO NOT BE MAKING these statements in public forums. It's bad enough that the "standard" for cheating has gotten so low it now includes "speaking" to anyone of the opposite sex even a police officer who just wrote you a ticket. If the wrong person jumps on your idea, we'll see the divorce rate jump to 99%.

Answer 5

We have no control over what we dream. Perhaps there was some unfinished business that she is processing through her dreams.
It certainly doesn't mean that she still cares for him if that's what you're thinking. Now, if she yells his name out while you're making love, that's another story...

Answer 6

It depends on how she yelled it. If she did it like an ear shatterining get off me stalker rapist kind of way then everything will be okay. but if it was in a moaning somethings feelin pretty good kind of way then you better put some more bang in your buck mister before you find her screaming his name in bed for real.

Answer 7

It was just a dream. People often dream of things that happened even as far back as early childhood. It's probably just a random memory her subconscious latched onto.

Answer 8

Its not a big deal she was obviously dreaming...now if she yelled out his name while having sex then its time for concern.

Answer 9

Probably some new guy, but I suppose she could be missing her old boyfriend. you know, reliving some of the good sex they had in dreams.

Answer 10

Stop. it was in her sleep. I could have been a nightmare? or a sex dream it doesn't matter, it was in her sleep....Grow up 13 years and she is still with you so be happy....