MY HUSBAND IS A NEW FOUND CHRISTIAN AND HE SAYS THAT THE ONLY WAY HE WILL DIVORCE ME IF IT IS UNDER THE GROUNDS OF ADULTERY. I TOO AM A CHRISTIAN AND ADULTERY IS AGAINST MY BELIEFS TOO. I KNOW IT IS A SIN TO GET DIVORCED UNDER ANY GROUNDS OTHER THAN ADULTERY, HOWEVER I AM TIREDE OF BEING HIS YO-YO. WE HAVE TRIED TO RECONCILE BUT AS SOON AS HE FEELS AS THOUGH I AM DISRESPECTING HIM OR DON'T SHOW HIM ANY LOVE THEN HE TELLS ME THAT GOD IS NOT IN THIS RELATIONSHIP AND WE HAVE GET OUT OF THE WAY OF GOD DOING HIS WORK. OH BY THE WAY MY HUSBAND IS BIPOLAR. WE HAVE BEEN SEPERATED FOR 18 MONTHS. HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE FOR ME TO GET A DIVORCE WITHOUT HIS SIGNATURE AND HOW COSTLY CAN THIS BE? WE BOTH RESIDE INPA. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-15 04:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Vette W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, my supposed 30 DAYS, took 18 MONTHS, and $1500 MORE than it was supposed to. But he never signed anything, nor did he show up for the court date. Thus the court clerk signed the necessary papers. Believe me, it was definitely worth the wait, AND every penny, to be free of him!
With 4 children, I was concerned about losing our home. Fortunately that did NOT happen.
(That was in CO.)
2007-05-15 04:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure,simply File For The Divorce To be Granted"in Absentia" but you'll want Documentation Of The procedure Server's supplying The Papers For Him To sign And Refusing,you can also must exhibit Proof Of certified Mail Receipts which were disregarded Or Refused From A recognized good address,The Documentation,You have to publish A Public notice in the County courtroom house on your town That naturally indicates That A hearing will probably be Set Forth On (The Date The court docket Set;s on your final Disposition Of Dissolution Of Marriage) and also you must additionally Ask Fo Alimony at the Time Of The Divorce,and in addition Any And All price's Incured,If He need o Be An A$$,supply It To Him right UP HIS!!
2016-08-11 12:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by muzzillo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular,in simple terms report For The Divorce To be Granted"in Absentia" yet you will choose Documentation Of the approach Server's providing The Papers For Him To sign And Refusing,you will additionally would desire to teach evidence Of qualified Mail Receipts that have been skipped over Or Refused From A trouble-loose sturdy handle,The Documentation,you would be able to desire to place up A Public observe interior the County court docket domicile on your city That of course shows That A listening to would be Set Forth On (The Date The court docket Set;s on your very final Disposition Of Dissolution Of Marriage) and you additionally should Ask Fo Alimony on the Time Of The Divorce,and additionally Any And All cost's Incured,If He prefer o Be An A$$,supply It To Him dazzling UP HIS!!
2017-01-09 21:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Misnomer is that whether he signs or not he cannot stop a divorce as it is a lawsuit with sanctions. Serve him with papers for irreconcileable differences and let him not sign or show up at the hearing, that is up to him. At the hearing you will be awarded the divorce and whatever you ask for if he does not answer the petition. The only way he is stopping your divorce is by telling you he is.
2007-05-15 07:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by atayrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your state... Contested divorces take longer than uncontested, not to make you feel bad but it will take several months just because of the overbooked court system...
Call your local court or a parralegal and ask them the average time for a contested divorce in your state.
I'm sorry for your marrige not working out, I hope you dont loose faith, God is forgiving and your husband is using him to either cover up his short comings or it is his condition.
Good luck, I wish you the best..........
2007-05-15 04:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by blazingbulldog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived in PA and my ex refused to sign. If the laws are still the same, once you file the divorce will be final in 2 yrs if he doesn't sign. You can go to the court house and file pro se and you will only have to pay filing fees unless there are custody and possessions you need to decide on. If there are you will probably need an attorney
2007-05-15 04:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by glbenner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Load pf garbage. His new found faith is irrelevant. If the judge grants you a divorce, he may not sign it but the judge can force the issue and effectively sign for him (given the appropriate time lines).
2007-05-18 05:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ted B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Varies from country to country and the type of defence.
2007-05-15 04:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him, theres your grounds for divorce.
2007-05-15 04:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋