Wife wants to come home but do not drive to get back?

Question

Last night my wife wants to come back home with the kids, but she said does not want to leave the furniture she just got behind. I told her rent a truck. She does not want to drive 8 hours drive by herself. She coming home because she about to be evicted. We have been through a lot. I told her it is her decision what to do. I do not want get blame. I willing to work it out with her, but I did my parts of finding a truck for her. I just confused about this, Last night I called her to tell the prices of rental, but her youngest answer her cell phone. He told me he had the cell and he at the laundry room. About hour later @ 10:30 pm, she called. However, I know she have a washer and dryer in the house. I am confused. What a man to do?

Answer 1

Wake up and realize that she is playing games with you.
She is getting evicted and you are there for her to take her back...easy way out for now.
There is a reason she left in the first place...remember that...has that reason changed?
Is she using you until someone else comes along or until she can make it on her own? Or is she truly in love with you and wants to come back to make it work out?
If she is not in love with you and wanting to make it work out...I would not let her come back.
But, you know the full story...we only get what you tell us...so if you can deal with it or if you are just being a friend, that is your choice.
Just be careful that you are not being used.

be cool...

Answer 2

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Answer 3

you have children with her. Or your comment "her youngest answer her cell phone" when you say "Her" isn't it your child too? Wouldn't you say "my" or "our" youngest?

If she hurt you in the past, that shows that she has no respect for you. If she left you with all the kids, she must be quilty of something otherwise she would of stayed and you would of left.

That makes me to believe if you're a good man. A good man would leave and have his wife and children stay at a stable home, instead you give her no choice to have a hardship with your children involved. This tells me that you are not a good man and she's coming home because she has no choice. She is treating you like you treat her!

You have no feelings if you don't care for your kids safety. GO PICK THEM UP CREEP, instead of finding a truck!

Answer 4

Hum, hun. Sounds like there are some real Trust issues going on. You are only patching up a huge blow out. If the youngest isn't your child only hers in the relationship that tells me allot. Stop thinking of only yourself. She may have been at the laundry so that she can do it all at once instead of a load at a time. What A man is to do is to create rules and stick by them. let her know what your deal is. whatever it is whether its trust or financial. Actually you don't need to take her back... its just a waste of time man..

Answer 5

terrific humorous tale i've got heard in a looong time! The punch line became into the icing on the cake because of the fact in the past the very final fact, I kind of became into questioning hmmmm it fairly is a stable difficulty that somebody ought to apply something that isn't getting used - then her husband's d_ _ _ wasn't getting used ha ha ha!!! I guess there are fairly some husbands in real existence that have an identical difficulty!!! ;-O

Answer 6

Sounds like she just using u simply cuz she had nowhere to go if I were u Id back out and tell her no room at the inn for her but ur kids are more than welcome.

Answer 7

Set the goals and act to achieve them.

Answer 8

Leave her alone. She's up to know good

Answer 9

She's a gamer!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't let her destroy you ..........Live and Learn