Have you noticed that most women are basically difficult to understand most of the time?

Question

it is like they speak in emotional abstract riddles! It is charming to a point, but I just don't know what the hell they are saying to me sometimes. Why can't they just say it out clear and straight and stay on topic and make it understandable.

wtf is up with that? do you women even understand each other?

levity: what's got your undies all in a twist doll?

ok Gay Jo - you are starting to freak me out bro!

Answer 1

Ya think? LOL.

I am a woman, and I find it difficult to keep track with many women's words and moods and actions! Sadly, there are so many television programs and books available to women that promote pop phychology...and we eat it up. We think that it puts words to our feelings and that brings about validation. Unfortunately, when they try that pop psychology for themselves, in the real world, it falls sadly short. They seem to think that men will understand it, but are sadly mistaken. Men have no interest, generally speaking, in trying to understand the reasons behind feelings...they merely need to recognize them as they come, and act accordingly. And the sooner women realize that, the happier they will be...

Answer 2

Men and women communicate differently. Women use a lot of body language and they read body language too. For women, a lot of communication is not necessarily WHAT is said but the WAY it is said. Men, on the other hand, usually just say what we mean. This difference in communication can often lead to confusion and misunderstandings. A problem many couples encounter is when women 'read' body language that is not there or when a man doesn't 'read' body language when the woman is communicating non-verbally. IMO women communicate better with other women, and men communicate better with other men.

Answer 3

We're like all humans. Sometimes we have something to say but we either don't know how to phrase it, are embarrassed , confused, tired or the other thousands of reasons that both men and women have. To say that men are somehow more adept w/ their verbal skills than women goes against most studies out there concerning skill advantages based on gender.

Answer 4

You're stupid enough to just wander around mindlessly in the dark, why should we enlighten you?
LOL Men don't want to ask directions... As a result, you'll NEVER know what we're thinking.
Women understand each other, completely. Usually we can look across the room at a complete stranger, and know what she's thinking. We pay attention.

Answer 5

While this is true for many women, (and men too) some of us try to be as direct as possible.

Answer 6

Instead of complaining, a little bit of education would help. Read a book. Try Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus. It will give you the clue you are clearly lacking.

Answer 7

Ohhh...you....poor, poor thing.....Yes it's true we're difficult for you to understand because your one track minds have your blood supply leaving your brain and racing to your ****.
Yes baybeh, we understand each other, but don't even attempt to decode...it is the "Universal language of women" and unless you ARE one, you cannot gain access to the underground club where the language is taught and perfected.
okay now step away while I send a message to my sisters....
Ladies....The fox is in the hen house....so we must purchase new shoes, and chocolate today. (got that?! wink, wink)

Answer 8

No.
Hey what happened to the panties question? That was pretty funny...

edit: speaking of on topic

Answer 9

of course we do. We are speaking in terms only women understand. It an international conspiracy against men!!!! Get used to it--- it will last your entire life.

Answer 10

I feel the same way about men.