What advice do you wish you had gotten before you got married?

Answer 1

dis is a good question. if ur men offers u money take it. if a men calls u stupid forget it. make sure he likes kids, love going out with da kids. clean person not messy. if he sees something he pics it up. doesnt mind cooking,at da beging
ur going to say i dont care about those things but when u have kids things get harder. you have wake up attend your kids da house and work it hard. my husband doesnt care i do everything while he sits and play with his exbox. make sure hes a romantic like buyin a flower doesnt have to be valentines day. doesnt like arrguin. let things in da house be your way but he can put his opinion. i feel better now thank you

Answer 2

Easy one "Your child bride needs to learn to drive asap!". Hey either a man or woman BOTH need to drive. Make sure your wife drives because if not you will end up being steppnfetchit for a long time. THAT is the advice I wish I had been given.

Answer 3

yeah im not married or anything, but after reading the first answer, i once read this in a magazine:

always clean in front of him. cause then he actually realizes that someone has to actually do it, that its not just elves or whatever lol

and then also i read a lady who had a husband who would always throw his dirty clothes on the floor, and she got sick of picking them up and cleaning them and blah blah all that. so then what she did is she started picking up his dirtry clothes, folding them right back up, and putting right back in the drawer. eventually he realized he will have no clean clothes unless they go in the hamper/laundry room. lol

hope it helps...

and best wishes!

Answer 4

I wish someone had told me not to ignore the red flags from her past. Sometimes the best way to predict the future is to look to the past. This is especially true when it comes to people. They tend not to change much. Their basic character in pretty much set at 20 yrs old. I would have avoided alot of pain had I not ignored those "red flags".

Answer 5

I wish someone told me that getting the marriage certificate processed will be a pain in the a-s-s!! I am married almost 6 months and STILL its being processed.

Answer 6

Communicate....at all times! that is the key to a new ( or old) marriage, talk about everything....Don't let the pressure of a new marriage be on just your shoulders, share your worries with him. It's not going to be just about you anymore, you will have to share your life with him. That means giving 110% ALL the time not just 50/50! It takes a lot of dedication to make a marriage work, and it is DAILY dedication!

Answer 7

i wish someone had told me how different men and woman really are. then maybe a few years of not understanding and arguing couldve gone alot better! i also wish that someone had told me that even though my husband said he loved to do dishes, he really didnt lol. still hes the best

Answer 8

I wish I would have been told to not do all the work around the house and that he needs to pick up slack sometimes.

Answer 9

my dad always tells me that he wishes that someone would of told him not to do it 24 years ago just because my mom was preg. now he is kinda trapped in the relationship after that many years. he always tells me that he will tell any guy that asks for his permition to 'not do it , run away stay a free man' and if he chooses to still marry me than thats his call. but my dad gave him advice its his call to take it our not... ya i know.. thanks dad.

Answer 10

Learn how to communicate, don't take each other for granted, don't let relatives or friends butt in and tell you how to do things. Read the relationship books by John Gray!!!