2007-05-15 02:57:44 · 14 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That after i said "I do" she said "Not any more". Just kidding. That there was a whole other person with their own unique qualities and that those qualities were meant to supply the lack in the qualities of my own being just as those qualities unique to me were meant to supply the lack in her. Since she died i am wondering if i shall be so blessed again, even tho my life is decent, it would be awesome to see if that is again possible, or if that was my one great and true love.Time will tell, but it has been 5 yrs.
2007-05-15 03:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I should be so lucky to find someone to cuddle with every night.
Not being married, the most surprising thing to me about marriage is how nonchalantly people take it nowadays. It's almost as if a lifetime commitment means nothing anymore.
2007-05-15 10:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nick C 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
KG, I don't know if women become "less desiring of sex" as much as it is that everything else seems to take precedence. When you are young and carefree and have no children, marriage is just about you two. But as you begin to grow a family and obtain a mortgage and two car payments and if the wife has to also work outside the home (in most cases this is true) then all of those things begin to take their tole on the sex life. The fact is she's just plain tired, physically and mentally. And for women, sex is more mental than physical so she needs to be rested in her mind even more so than her body. And sex for you guys is predicated a lot on us women. I know in order for my husband to really enjoy it, "I" have to be really into it. Moaning and wanting it and sometimes that alone is just a lot of work. If you guys could get in there, do your business and get out, "sometimes" that would be more appreciated because we don't have to "perform" in order for you to perform. Sigh, I'm tired thinking about it! So give us wives a break...it's not that we don't want it or don't desire you, it's just that life takes it's toll on us and while you do most of the work once the act starts, we have a lot of mental work to do before the act itself. Good luck.
2007-05-15 10:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What surprised me was the change in expectations. Even when we lived together before we were married my wife didn't have the expectations of me that she does now. She expects that I will do things to suit her, and mostly I do because she is right and its easier, but I was surprised how it change once we were married.
2007-05-15 10:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the infrequency of sex. When we were dating, 3-4x a week.
Now, once a week. As a guy, I know this sounds cliche, but we do think about sex alot. If a guy says he doesn't, he's lying.
Why do women suddenly become less desiring of having sex after marriage?
2007-05-15 10:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really. I guess I thought it would be harder the way people always talk about it. But things thus far have been great. But I've only been married a year.
2007-05-15 10:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Reality.
2007-05-15 10:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it isnt really bad to be with a man always , all night. Rather many girls ( like me) miss the cuddling and affection more than they miss sex!! But Men..they are ALWAYS willing to have sex:-) , cuddling and affection ...do they really feel the eed of it??
2007-05-15 10:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sure most of them were surprised to see that majority of the sex slows down tremendously in a lot of marraiges
2007-05-15 10:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
All these guys say the decline in sex, but I just want it more and more...There's hope!
2007-05-15 10:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋