And what does it mean when he says "it's not going to happen" right in the middle of sex?
2007-05-14 23:17:03 · 14 answers · asked by like-it 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
OK when I say ejaculate, I also mean orgasm (hehe). It's strange that when we were making out, he was so hard, but when we were actually having sex, he went soft on me and said he couldn't c u m. He told me it wasn't my fault, but i felt like I was not good enough. He's not with me anymore, but this bothers me still to this day.
2007-05-15 10:02:20 · update #1
The orgasm and the ejaculation are seperate things, although they usually occur at the same time. It is possible for a man to have an orgasm and not ejaculate, but this may take months of training. I think it's got to do with meditation and the different shakras of the body and so forth. I've never tried it.
As for the "it's not going to happen" comment, why didn't you ask him what it meant when he said it?
2007-05-14 23:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What quaint phrasiology "can`t ejaculate but soon over come that" !? Some guy`s suffer from premature ejaculation, others don`t come at all, There may be some psychological reason as to why he doesn`t, or maybe he has great control maybe he masturbates a lot, and has nothing left to give you (sorry, your friend) or it might be a physical reason, like blocked Vasal tubesor some other constriction .
2016-03-19 05:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is.
Some men suffer from something called retarded ejaculation.
Some others do in fact ejaculate, but for various reasons, including prostate surgery, they sometimes ejaculate backwards into the bladder rather than forwards out through the urethra. I don't know if that counts as non-ejaculation or merely misdirected ejaculation.
2007-05-14 23:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that when a man does not ejaculate the penis does not deflate. Is in the mind he need to release.
If you want him to do for 3 days and 3 nights continuously than don't ask him to ejaculate.
2007-05-15 00:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure its possible the possibilities are :
(1)The man stop sexually aroused and stop himself from getting further horny when he is about to ejaculate
(2)The man had perform some kind of operations to either to cut away the testis so it will prevent it from ejaculate even he gets erection ,sexual pleasure or masturbation.As good as impotent.
2007-05-15 00:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by intellual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply he lost interest, happens a lot if something turns the man off, varys from one person to another, mostly its a bad odor or remembered something that turned him off or wasn't what he expected!
Best way to know if you ask him try to be friendly and let him know that you want him and you enjoy it best with him, that ofcourse if you care for him and you, other wise find other!
2007-05-15 01:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens to me all the time. i think it's normal. just might not have enough left in you. sometimes, i orgasm but nothing come out. works for me.
2007-05-15 08:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! not to be gross or anything.... but if he's done it frequently in the day, there may not be any sperm left in the testes. Its normal.... it could also be a product of stress of he could be uncomfortable.
2007-05-14 23:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by mo17ix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry honey, it's not your fault. This sort of thing happens occasionally in life.
2007-05-15 04:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by itsmyitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he cant get a proper erection, and yes it's possible. he just wont ejaculate.
2007-05-14 23:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Midnight Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋