Do you think most people are insecure even though they appear secure or confident on the outside?

Answer 1

Yes I think so!

The other night I was thinking about the people at my school who I though were secure and confident. There were quite a few. But yesterday one of these boys who I though was secure and definitly confident actually told me other wise. He told me his life story and about all his insecurities.

I think even though people seem confident there is something (it may not be a big thing) that they aren't confident about. No one is perfect, and no one lives a perfect life.

Also how people often display themselves, in this case a confident person, can just be a barrier/ a wall that they put up. I know that I do this. I go out everyday falsely confident. Inside I am nothing but scared and insecure but on the outside I don't think people could tell. Because I've been doing this for so long it becomes natural.

Good question though!

Answer 2

I think most people that appear secure and confidant are indeed just that. Many people are secure and confident but may be insecure about certain things, like speaking in public. Then there are those that appear confident that aren't really but do a very good job acting as if they are. Having said all that, there's no reason for any of us to be insecure. Why would be give so much power to others who judge us, they are no better than we are?

Answer 3

It is a fact in the modern day world because of terrorism and pollution prevailing everywhere. Our fate is not under our control. So, insecurity whether know or unknown is there. If realization comes about this insecurity develop self confidence by musing in Nature and reading mind elevating books like THE CREATION OF ONE WORLD by T A Ramesh, DREAMS, IDEAS AND REALITIES by T A RAMESH aviable in amazon.com and get benefited and lead better life in the world.

Answer 4

I think the majority of people have two sides, their public and their private persona.People only expose ( not baring all) as much of themself as they feel comfortable with.I think it is a method of protecting ourself from others.We want to apear strong and confident as if we are in control of our life.Live long enough and you don't stress as much over other people's opinion of you.You have learned it is ok to make mistakes,show emotion and to age.We are after all mere mortals trying to do our best each day.