My ex once was in a gay relationship when he was 16. Me & him recently went on a vacation & he wouldn't even touch me & didnt want to sleep together. We have broken up before & we always did but now he doesnt want to even kiss. I know he has been on a gay personal website, right before he broke up with me we broke up bc he said he didnt see forever with me. do you think he is gay/bi. ANd if he was bi wouldn't he want to still be with me sexually, we were together 6 years.
2007-05-14 16:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like you and he are not getting along well. It is possible that he has decided that he is gay, but there sounds like a lot more has gone on between the two of you. This is more complex an issue than your question suggests. You and your ex, if you intend to remain somewhat romantically involved, need to have a talk about this.
And by the way, why would you want to sleep with someone with whom you share so little trust?
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2007-05-14 16:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry but I think he is gay not bi- even a gay man -not all but those working on issues can have sex with a woman.
Sorry u invested so much time with him and if you want to be his friend, good luck.
My bet after "knowing and loving a number of married Bi-guys", Personally I'd run for the hills or prepare for a life of hurt and possibly STD's.
These Straight/Bi guys arenot so cool on safe sex- I've sent a few married ones packing- it was like they had a sex death wish.
Wish I could be positive 4 u -but I always liked masculine, married men>
(Not proud-just honest-I liked secrets too.)
2007-05-16 22:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by riverwooddude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I have found going on vacation is the best way to find out if you can stand someone or not.
He may have decided it's over but just can't come out and tell you....in fact, I can almost promise this is the case.
He may be deciding he is mostly gay and that the relationship is not working out but either way, be prepared because it's over
2007-05-15 12:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's obvisouly not straight, but he could still be bi. maybe he just doesnt see anything between you guys anymore, or maybe he just wants to explore his sexuality. what ever the case you should let him go. because your defiently in, what i could only assume is a dead end relationship. find somebody more secure with their sexuality. good luck =)
2007-05-15 00:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by o0hhdangletzbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt his being gay/bi has much to do with your situation. i think there's a lot more to it than you're telling us. he was only 16, right? it's been all about you for 6!
my advice is give it up!
2007-05-15 02:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are too clingy and restricting him. Perhaps he wants freedom and space to explore his sexuality deeper.
2007-05-14 23:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Edhelosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, are you female? If you are..regardless of his sexuality he doesn't want to have sex with you or he would have tried to by now---you gave him all the opportunities.
2007-05-14 23:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋