Ok. I'm very much happily married. However me and huband been married 2 years now and have a year old baby. Brother n law is 17. And I flirt with him. I flirt with guys I know or think will know its nothing serious. Huband know and gets doesn't care he knows I'm just messing around with them and would never cheat. Well his brother always flirts back jokingly as well and in front of his brother all fun and games. Well his brother asked me to a dance at his school had no other date so anyway I went. He was doing more then just flirting at the dnace.And he tried to do something with me. I said no I'm happily married. However is something wrong with me because I liked the attention from him. I mean hubby doesn't say things like you're pretty or wanna jump me to have sex anymore. So what's your take on the deal?
2007-05-14 15:29:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Seems you are on the path to destroy your marriage flirting will get you into trouble big time, if you need to flirt then ask yourself why am i married? ♥
2007-05-14 15:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop being childish about marriage and be a grown up. 17 is jail bait and if you ever did anything further than flirt that would make YOU A CHILD MOLESTOR.
If you weren't ready for the committment of NOT FLIRTING constantly and blatanlty you shouldn't have married.
You have a child to be more concerned about and a husband. If you're husband isn't telling you are pretty anymore, ask yourself, have you let yourself go after having the baby ?
Wanna jump for sex, well having to work and having a child and all the responsibility that your husband has might be affecting him sexually, it does happen.
Please dont make yourself a single mother by divorce cause you can't remain faithful. YOU need to sit down with your husband and talk about these issues, not with strangers on yahoo answers.
2007-05-14 15:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What in the world is a married woman with a child doing going to a high school dance? I think maybe you rushed into marriage and child bearing before you were ready for it my dear.
The flirting is a sign of poor self esteem, the only way to get a boost is to make yourself noticed to every guy in the room, no matter who or where, this is going to lead to lots of problems in the future unless you get control of it now.
By flirting, even jokingly, you are creating false hopes in some people and possibly holding them back from finding someone of them own by entertaining impossible dreams and thoughts caused by your flirting.
Maybe you should concentrate all your flirting on your husband and he may just go back to telling you that you are beautiful, because he may be able to see you without all those "others" around you for a change!
Good Luck
2007-05-14 15:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by mrsmommaid 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for attention from your husband, be it possitive or negative. It was up to you as the adult to halt what the brother in law was doing as soon as it went beyond flirting, although maybe in hind sight you shouldn't have gone to the dance in the first place. Maybe you should tell baby bro to take a hike and concentrate on your marriage and baby.
2007-05-14 18:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a woman who he has regular contact with and he's 17. Every 17 year old guy falls in love with every woman he meets. Especially older women. What you have to do is teach this puppy there is a difference with you being his sister in law and you being his brother's wife. He's not old enough or mature enough to see a difference and you should stay away. I hope your husband is nothing like his brother.
2007-05-14 15:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. E. Bunny A.K.A. Andy. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're flattered by the attention from you BiL. That's normal.
But you are married. If the attention is making you uncomfortable, then you should probably tell your BiL to stop. This is a bad situation in the making. Good luck.
2007-05-14 15:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There will always be somebody willing to flirt with you....but that doesn't mean they'd be willing to be your faithfully loving husband. Knock of the inappropriate relationship with your MINOR brother-in-law. Because that's exactly what it is, inappropriate.
2007-05-14 15:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if this guys is gonna try stuff with his OWN BROTHER'S wife then something's wrong with him! and you need to quit flirting with him back or he's gonna keep thinking it's ok. Also talk to ur husband about how you wish he would compliment you and have sex more and stuff. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!♥
2007-05-14 15:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
stop flirting with him its wrong and sick! you can not have 2 brothers! my aunt had a baby by one brother then turned around and had 2 babies by his brother! Now her kids are cousin and sisters and brothers get it!
2007-05-14 15:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to grow up and stay away from your brother-in-law
2007-05-14 15:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Brown eyed girl 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋