I have a girlfriend but I find myself attracted to her younger brother. Could I be gay? I mean I have sex with her and all but.....sometimes I find myself thinking about him when we're doing it from behind.
2007-05-14 14:03:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sexual fantasies about lots of different people do not make you either straight or gay. If you PREFER being with a guy, then chances are you may be gay. Some of us have NEVER been attracted to women, and so it was pretty clear what our orientation was. The truth is, however, that most people are somewhere in the middle in attraction. Behavior, too, can be toward both genders, but it can become more problematic when you are acting out a fantasy, particularly if you are misleading someone just to have sex with them.
You may want to get into some counseling about this. This forum can answer some questions, but everyone is different. You may be bisexual, which will give you some choices about how you want to lead your life. You didn't give your age, but it sounds like you're girlfriend is still living at home with her family, so I wager you're young. Find a counselor who will help you explore your fantasies, your sexual desires, you dreams, who you feel most comfortable with, etc. As you work through this, the reality of your sexual orientation will become more clear.
Good luck.
2007-05-14 14:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After doing a little soul searching, you may find that you actually may be more inclined toward bi-sexual than straight.
You may even want to consider 'cooling things off' a little with her for a little while just so that you can give yourself that little bit of personal space to 'get your head' straight, as it were. That'll give you time/space to really determine what your real self is all about; without playing false or short-changing yourself, or her.
If you choose. however, to just ignore the issue, it could result in heart-breaking consequences, if not frustration.
2007-05-14 21:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Damien M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't be having sex with your girlfriend if you're thinking about her brother while doing it.
It sounds like you might be either gay or bi, but it's up to you to figure out what you're attracted to. None of us can answer that for you.
2007-05-14 21:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Happy go Lucky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you find yourself thinking about him on a regular basis and that's the only way you get turned on you're probably gay. If it only happens occasionally it's probably just a homoerotic fantasy.
2007-05-14 21:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Sexi Man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh ho! Big give a way! Your G A Y! If your thinking of doing her brother then you are a Gayboy!
2007-05-14 21:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choosing a screen name that includes "fruity" might be a clue.
2007-05-14 21:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by inactive account 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well look at a guy naked what do you feel like doing
2007-05-15 00:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by the_chupa_thingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same way that you know that you are straight
2007-05-14 21:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go against your conscience, society, nature and God Himself that's when you know that you're gay.
2007-05-14 21:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
So,...why not just "do" him,...and come back and tell us how it was!
2007-05-15 03:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋