Do you consider how it will effect others in your life, or do you just do them?
By this, I mean things in general in your life.
What about bigger things?
2007-05-14 13:08:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Most of the time I consider myself analytical. But, sometimes I'm impulsive. As for goals, I have short-term and longer-range ones that I put a lot of thought into them and how they would affect others, how what the general cost would be.
2007-05-14 20:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a good majority of the time i think before i speak so i don't hurt anyone i say. if i do i don't mean it cuz it isn't me at all. how people know me i can be mean at all but we have a mean side anyway. i rarely have a temper. it is very hard to piss me off. i only blow my fuse just once a year. when i swear it just doesn't seem right anyway my friends laugh at me. i grew up in a catholic house with no swearing. got punished if we did. some slipped but few. i try to do what is right and that it feels right. i try to say the right things at the right time. i try to be perfect but we can't anyway. i try to live up as a saint cuz of St.Paul the street i live next to. i wasn't named after it anyway if you think it anyway. paul is a good catholic name anyway and so is my middle name Joseph.
so now you know a little more about me. how's this sweetie
2007-05-15 00:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I consider how it will effect others in my life. This is what wives and mothers do.
On this thought though, when young people make decisions they often lack the experience in seeing the ramifications of their decisions good or bad!
2007-05-14 20:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Libby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most times, yes.
And sometimes, even though I think about it, and KNOW it's not the right thing to do, I do it anyway... 90% of the time I totally regret it, but there's that 10% chance I just might be happy I took the chance =)
2007-05-14 20:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by thesoapgoatsoapshop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only time I ever think about how something is going to effect someone else in my life is if its a big thing, like moving, choosing a doctor, work, school, etc.. But as far as everything else its usually only having to do with me so I dont include how its going to effect anyone else, and the only people I worry about any of my choices effecting are my son, and BF, other then that what I do dont effect too many other people. Even if it did, I still put myself, and my kid first, I dont let how something I choose to do is going to effect others change, or stop me from doing the things that way because its not about them, its usually about how much better my lil family is going to be with my choices, like as far as my parents.. say for example Im moving to another state, how that is going to effect my parents I dont think about for the most part because I know if I chose to do so then its with good reason, and even though they may not see me as much as they do now they will still see me, and my fam when it matters most like holidays, sick days, etc.. when its important to them. I make sure Im making the right decisions before I do things now, but I dont let others stop me from making a certain choice if they dont like it, just because they dont see it effecting them in a positive way.. do you understand what Im saying??? lol. Things that need me to think about are usually only having to do with me, and no one else so I dont always think about them when something comes up because what matters is how its effecting me(usually if its going to effect me in a negative way then its probibly going to effect others in a negative way, but as far as effecting me in a positive way then its not about them at all in my eyes).
2007-05-14 20:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me general things are always heart driven
I analyse all the bigger things , which can affect my life and others in my life and then act on it using my brains and i iteratively do it till i arrive at a conclusion.
2007-05-15 03:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a organised man, i organise my actions rather then planning them.
I am considerate about the effect of my actions on other people, organisations, society or the nation.
Yes there was just one thing that happened to me, and i am proud of it, my LOVE for Magic, it was not planned,
So i must say, better be organised than planning.
2007-05-15 00:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Brave Heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when I can, I try and consider the effects of my decisions. Every thing we do matters.
2007-05-14 20:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger... NO. I just said what I felt regardless. Now that I am older I try to get it all straight before I talk to someone. Even then... sometimes... it just comes out so I have had to learn to apologize.... a lot sometimes.... and then try and get the communication going again.
2007-05-14 20:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by shetaz5360 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea sometimes i think before i do something otherwise i'll make a fool of my self. sometimes you have to think about the other person or other people before you say something (trust me) cause ive learned that a single sentence can change the way someone thinks about you. sometimes u have to be confident and let your answers and thoughts speak for themselves.....but mostly you just have to realize how you are going to appoach yourself
2007-05-14 20:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by apple 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋