My "friend" ali and i are having SERIOUS issues. I did something that i shouldn't have because it was really funny but it really hurt her feelings and that was about a week ago. Here it is a week later and we havent talked since then. She hates me bacause she says we fight to much (which is VERY true) so she doesn't want to hang out with me anymore or talk to me anymore and we are leaving our best friend christa in the middle of all of this and it is a really big mess especially i sit RIGHT NEXT TO HER in math and she doesn't even say 1 word to me EVER. i mean if she doesn't want to hang out with me that doesn't mean that she can't at least say 1 word to me right???But i have been really mean to her for the past couple of days so i think thats why. But i don't really want to be friends with her anymore because she is kind of annoying because she talks about this guy she likes, john, NONSTOP!!!and it gets really annoying!!!!!Please help me and please don't be mean.Thank You Guys So Much
2007-05-14 12:20:42 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Blondie ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It looks as if your friendship has finally reached that peak where you guys are being tested on whether you are really friends. Of course you are going to have your ups and downs, that's life. But it seems like your "differences" are going to far. Now why would you play a mean joke on her, I don't know, but the best thing for you to do at this moment is to give it some time and let her cool down. Then when she seems less pissed off at you, ask her could you guys talk. If she doesn't want to talk, write her a letter. And if she still doesn't want to have anything to do with you, just let it go! Obviously she wants to stay in that frame of mind, so let her. Hopefully though it won't have to go that far. Best of wishes to ya!
2007-05-14 12:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi,
it sounds if the two of you have gone in separate directions and there is not much that you can do about it, you should have thought about being nice to her before you made her feel so bad, there are times when even good friends should be careful about what they say, just because you were a friend of hers doesn't not mean that you have all rights to hurt her feelings you should start with an i am sorry and go from there, you may not get as close as you once was but at lest you might get her to talk to again.
2007-05-14 19:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You and ali are two different people.You dont have to be the same in any way and you should stay friends.The same thing happend to me with my old friend meygan.Now we hardly look at each other.Dont let the same thing happen to you.Talk to ali and if you dont want to be best friends you can still be friends.Tell her that you are different and that you may fight but you dont want to end up hating each other.I read your profile and you and ali sound to good of friends to break up.I hope this helps and good luck.
2007-05-14 19:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well regardless if you dont want to be friends or not, i think you should resolve the fight and just be alliences. That way you can be in the same room together. I know saying goodbye to a friend can be hard, but trust me you guys will both be more sane afterwords.
2007-05-14 19:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kelsey H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol you sound like you live in my hometown with friends like ali and christa but anyway just be nice to her but not friends everything will work out
2007-05-14 19:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are trying to get her to speak to you so that you can ignore her. Do you want to be her friend or not?
2007-05-14 19:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg!! dont talk to her, or maybe you can show up to her house and talk to her parents about it.i really feel sorry for you.
2007-05-14 19:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rain 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok honey...
the only way to have a friend is to be one.
2007-05-14 19:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋