why do so many teenagers nowadays think every relationship they get in has to involve sex?

Question

i went up to my old highschool and some of the sh!t i heard disgusts me.

Answer 1

I dont think that. I just want someone to love me. At any age, sex is something two people who are in love do. Sex is something that makes a relationship even better and makes two people more in love.

Answer 2

i know, it's very gross. some people just do it b/c they think it's cool or they wanna have a baby, show off, or they just want to get it over w/..stuff like that. but they don't even know what they're doing half the time b/c they just copy it from t.v. people say "o i'm ready for sex b/c i found the right person....i'm positive it's him/her" that's who i wanna lose my virginity too. umm ok but then once people start getting STD's and all the other diseases i dont think they'll wanna be sexuallly active for a while. but yeah, it's pretty much b/c they think they're ready or they just wanna do it and that's not right they're deff. too young and shouldnt even be talkin bout "O i had sex...im not a virgin" bla bla bla. i mean im only 14 and i've been thinking about but then again i'm not ready, i dont feel comfortable being naked around a boy and having them touch me all over and i haven't found the right person....so im gonna wait til i'm older which is what everyone else should do...whats the rush in losing your virginity?...but anyways i hope this helps

Answer 3

I know what you mean about 'nowadays' & yeh you're right, I'm 33 & it was nothing like that when I was a teenager, we all had respect for ourselves then & would never even have thought about having sex at 14-16 & if we ever heard of anyone who had we were all disgusted. Kids these days are growing up to quick, their parents let them walk out in high heels & make up going to school, its ridiculous! They sell padded bras & high heels for 8 year olds now & the scary thing is parents actually buy them!

Answer 4

It must just be a thing at that high school. At my high school it is disgusting. I don't plan on having sex till I am 32. I just want a relationship with a lot of hugging and holding hands.

people are probably doing "it" because they have nothing else to do. they alredy have good grades, and they think there perfect. So what else do they have to excell in?

Answer 5

No sir, i do no longer think of your assumption is real in any respect. My relationship with my boyfriend is honestly in no way approximately intercourse. we've on no account had it and god knows notwithstanding if we are going to ever do it or no longer. My boyfriend is a extreme affected person of Crohn's ailment and he has an extremely decreased libido. He on no account feels sexual in any respect. He has seen an rather tricky time in his existence because final 6 years. He can't even eat stable nutrition and is oftentimes ill even after countless treatments. i'm the 1st female in his existence and that i'm his ultimate pal previously being his lady pal. he's likewise my ultimate pal. he's the main worrying and loving guy or woman I even have ever met and that i'm the luckiest guy or woman who he chosen to be with him. he's rather sensible and sharp nerd and an favourite looking guy. as a count of reality i'm very usual female interior the college the place we learn, and he says that he can't believe that i'm with him as his lady pal. easily i like to guard him and he too cares for me extra advantageous than I do. we've dated for extra or less an 365 days and we've on no account reported intercourse. We hug and we kiss and we've spent and slept mutually for nights at his domicile and he lives along with his mothers and fathers. we've on no account had intercourse nor did we ever make out. easily we on no account would desire to do it because of the fact we are already plenty linked emotionally that we don't sense like having intercourse, and his actual situation no longer stable and that i completely understand and understand his emotions. We plan to spend our lives mutually and seem forward to destiny and he says he would desire to have infants sometime after wedding ceremony. i'm particularly particular of our destiny mutually. So, i m sorry yet i assume no longer all relationships are very nearly intercourse, and there is something extra advantageous than that, that's love. i desire this helps. all the final :-)

Answer 6

Because that's all they see in the stuff they watch and that's all they hear about in the music they listen to. Most kids are growing up in a household where both parents are working and families do not spend much time together leaving the kids to basically raise themselves, so therefore they do not realize what they are doing is not a wise choice.

Answer 7

B/c our society is training them to think so- music, movies, T.V shows, videos, MTV, even cartoons (every princess has a prince). Schools teach about condoms, the internet is a filled with pornography. Our ex-president said that blow-jobs were “not sexual activity” (Prayer has been taken out of school and our society is becoming more decadent.)

Answer 8

I don't understand that either. They get so involved with sex and forget about school. They act like the sex is going to last for ever, and they will not be needing to get a job after school is out to support themselves. I can't believe how many think that watching porn is okay and having multiple sex partners.

Answer 9

i don't even think its just teens and relationships. its teens and sex. matter of fact its kids and sex. a lot of younger kids are being exposed to sex and its ridiculous. i have a 12 years old brother and his friends say the most vulgar and deluded things I've ever heard in my life

Answer 10

Middle school's like that,too.Your not really trying to act "grown" or anything, but we teens, just like adults, feel the need to get,um,intimate with each other sometimes,and the results are usually sex.