she's nice but she gets rly annoying-ish...all of my friends hated her from the start but i still wanted to be nice and all. But now i think that she is getting really annoying... I think we both changed at the same time and now our personalities conflict badly. Like, she always is jealous and everything and gets a ll "poser"/wannabe-ish. how can i GENTLY tell her that she's annoying and i don't really want to be her friend anymore?
It sounds mean but I don't want to live a lie anymore.
2007-05-14 11:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by who am i? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I were in your friend's shoes, it would be nice if you tell me face to face the things that you don't like about me rather than hearing it from other people. Though it will surely hurt at first but then later it would surely bring about good changes and for your friend to be aware of her bad traits and somehow change it for the better. If she's a true friend then she will surely understand that you only wanted the best for her and not to embarrass her. If she doesn't accept your criticism constructively then perhaps there's something wrong with her personality and it's about time for you to take a different course and be friends with others whom you can rely through thick and thin. But at this point, give her a chance to change whatever negative traits she has. Afterall that's what friends are for. You have to be patient and understanding. Aside from that, there must be some factors why she's becoming like that. She may be lacking for attention she needed from people she loves that's why her behavior is totally unbecoming. Just tell her honestly whatever you feel. You might not know it you will be the reason for her to change. Goodluck!
2007-05-14 11:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by lyt10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on the first hand you were nice to be friends with her in the beginning. But on the second hand it is mean to all of a sudden to not want to be friends. I understand that you changed but everyone changes and she won't be like that for the rest of her life. So my advice is to try harder and you will see that there is still a great person inside her.
2007-05-14 11:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm... u shouldn't have shown "interest" in the first place. however, what's done is done, and there's no use crying over spilt milk. as a girl, there is no nice way for a guy to tell a girl he's not interested, but you can probably break it to her gently, like "hey, i really don't think we're meant to be together, but we can still hang out". She probably won't take that too well either, but there's really nothing you can do.
2007-05-14 11:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I understand, yet perhaps you're maximum efficient him to think of which you're greater suitable than acquaintances. I mean, going out to dinner and then a action picture - merely the two one among you may make every physique, particularly somebody who would not appear like the style who had lots of dates, think of which you're greater suitable than acquaintances. i understand you do not elect to interrupt his heart, yet you already know you style of ought to. there isn't an uncomplicated way around this. do not forget approximately him, merely the subsequent time he asks you on a date or components flora or something like that, remind him which you 2 are merely acquaintances. you ought to bypass out with somebody else too. that should spark jealousy, yet i'm uncertain that that should be best. which will probable merely make him elect you greater.
2016-11-28 04:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, talk to her alone about how she's acting.[So you don't embarrass her in public] Tell her that's she's changed alot. Tell her positive stuff about how she used to act. Give her suggestions on how to be herself.
If she still proceeds to be annoying, while knowing you hate it, call her out in public. Girl's hate that.
2007-05-14 11:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is sad but if that happened to me. just stop REALLLLLLYYYYY slowly talking to her. i wouldn't tell her that she is annoying i would just tell her that you think that they have grown apart and there is nothing that either of you two could do about it. i might be a little lie but that is the nicest way i think
2007-05-14 11:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by want to run 1600 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her shes an annoying **** and that she should **** right off. - In a gentle tone of course :)
2007-05-14 11:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be out right and honest . tell her exactly how you feel.
2007-05-14 11:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋