Two years into the relationship he said he wanted me to move in with him - I was not ready. He told me that he had thought of marriage. We are now discussing buying a house together in the spring (we each already own our own homes) and he mentioned marriage (casually) for the first time in a couple of years the other day. Anyone think he plans to propose?
2007-05-14 09:43:46 · 19 answers · asked by jeri 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It looks like it! If you are ready for a marriage, then just drop some hints here and there randomly so he can get the idea and know that you are ready. If you aren't ready yet, than say things like "Yeah, maybe one day" or make little jokes like " Not yet right?" but of course not sounding rude and just laughing a little after every comment.
2007-05-14 09:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dating already for 4 years and he has not proposed chances are he is not. What is the reason behind wating a few more years? If he loves you and you guys are planning to buy a home together why not get married?
Alot of times women don't stay in relationships because they are comfortable there but they don't take in acount what is convenint for them. You have to analyze many things about your relationship, your age, where is your relationship going, why is he waiting for, do you want kids, your biological clock, are you happy? Once you have analyzed all these things truthfully to yourself then you can talk to your partner and depending on your partner's answer's you can see what your options are because at the end of the what counts is that you are happy, everything else can be taken care of.
Good luck.
2007-05-14 09:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you, if he wanted to proposed, he should had not it by now. maybe he is scared or just pulling your brain to see what you would say or react to his comments. if you own property together, he already had you one way or another.
here is the thing, sometimes, not all the time, but somethings relationships where people live together sometimes dont end up in marriage. some other times they do end up in marriage to turn around and get divorced over different ideas and thought.s
if you are happy together stay like that. if you dont see yourself with himin the future then you have some thoughts you need to work out. but if you whether you have a piece of paper or not saying you are married, what you feel for each other should only be the true answer to yoru question./
2007-05-14 09:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is ready to pop the question. Men very rarely casually bring up marriage. Four years seems like a good time to have waited. Just don't sell the houses you guys each own. Try renting them out, extra income.
2007-05-14 09:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by PharmNerd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one makes plans to buy a house together unless they fully intend to marry each other. A word of caution, though: so much could go wrong between now and the actual event, that I would not advise you to buy the house together until AFTER you are married. Congratulations! and Good Luck!
2007-05-14 09:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been together for 4 years, that is longer than most marriages last. He maybe, but he may be telling you he is in it for the long hull and that buying a house together would be a good thing.
2007-05-14 09:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Va princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur not ready thats fine. and if he is thinking to propose to u and if u think he is the right guy to spend the rest of ur life with and if u love him go for it.. and about the house i would not sell ur home i would rented out just incase near the future u need to move out u know where to go .. gooluck
2007-05-14 09:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by boricuabitch4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets agree it's on his mind. Talk to him about it. If you're going to spend the rest of your life with the guy the least you need to be able to do is talk to him about all things that matter to you. So talk. If he does propose come back and tell all? Take care
2007-05-14 09:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by drcharlieemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he did, he would make plans to marry you before suggesting buying a house together.
2007-05-15 02:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey you never know you just have to wait patiently for when he do proposed.
But please be an alert just in case if it doesn't happen that he will proposed. But for me girl it seems that he has a lot of good things in his mind for you so take it step by step.
and I will cross my fingers for ya
2007-05-14 09:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋