What does it mean if you are out to dinner with your bf (been together almost two years) and he says that he doesn't want to go through everything we have with someone else and then starts asking about what our future looks like. Is that him telling me he is ready to get serious? OR that he is afraid of our future....but doesn't want to do it over...so he is settling.... What do I do with this?
2007-05-14 09:33:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hole ****... The question... I don't know about all that!
2007-05-14 10:41:08 · update #1
Holy ****... The question... I don't know about all that!
2007-05-14 10:41:16 · update #2
if i, i would have kissed my gf and pop the question..nah maybe he is young arr...he is trying to be asure of himself..and be asure of you that ur line is totattl eclear wiht no other man...he is getting ready alright, just wait...
coming soon....
2007-05-15 02:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't over analyze this. Men are basic...just ask him what he's saying. He'll tell you. Women always over analyze things to the point of ruining it. He's probably wanting to get serious and in his way (rationalizing) telling you the same thing.
Remember the three "B" with men:
1. Be blunt...that's how guys like it
2. Be black and white....no hiddeen agenda here
3. Be beautiful...this makes everything work out
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2007-05-14 09:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's you reading way too much into a statement that your boyfriend has made. He's trying to compliment you for being with him through difficult times, and he couldn't picture going through it with someone else.
Men are confusing? What he said is pretty straight forward. The eleven million tangents you're going with this makes you the confusing one, my dear.
2007-05-14 09:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so analytical. Just go with the flow and enjoy what you have right now. Or you can always ask him all those questions and watch as he runs for the door!
2007-05-14 09:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that you have been through alot of things and learned from them. looks like hes taking a step towards the more serious route, at least mentally
2007-05-14 09:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is getting ready to pop the question and he has his "feelers" out there to see it you might be saying yes so he wont look stupid because he wants to surprise you.
2007-05-14 09:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You talk to him about it. I'm not sure what he meant by it. It sounds like he is ready for something serious. You really need to talk to him about it.
2007-05-14 09:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have a hard time being mushy and romantic. I think he's telling you that you are the one he wants forever. good luck.
2007-05-14 09:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by morris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is thinking out loud and hasn't thought it through yet.
2007-05-14 10:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you will get the answer by asking him! You have been together for four years, don't you trust his answer, to be honest?
2007-05-14 14:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by nicholaslovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋