I seriously dated a girl for 3 years and stupidly made promises to be married, then renegged. This kills me, just I thought she would wait, it was how i was feeling at the time! Prob just being a guy, scared,etc. I thought things were fine and out of the blue last Sept. she said she needed time alone. Well, she immediately reconnected with an old bf and they were married 4 months later.She has been married for 3 months and we spoke for the 1st time since the wedding last week (she called me) and she told me she only got married bcs she wanted to be a wife, and that she would only get divorced if he GAVE HER a reason, but that she wouldnt do it bcs. she would feel too guilty. Didnt say anything about LOVE. But, she said she FEELS loved and SAYS she is happy (like 1000 times she told me). What do you think about this? She keeps on calling me, but ends up yelling at me and is still very upset. Will it last? Is she honestly happy?I am so devastated, taking depression meds now.
2007-05-14 09:15:03 · 6 answers · asked by rickie7611 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want this Drama in your life? Something held you back the first time, and it sounds like she is playing you now. Find someone else, there is someone out there waiting for you. No she is not happy, but it is not your problem or your fault. People make there own happiness, by the decisions they make.
2007-05-14 09:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schit! you should be dancing a jig right now! YOu have escaped marrying a "never truly happy woman"! Think about this....she dates you for three years...hooks up with an old Bf and then runs off and marries him in four months... two things here..either she's really stupid or she was playing around on you . Either way she's not the type of woman you would want to marry...she'll ruin your life. Change you phone number....tell her to leave you alone if she doesn't then call her husband and drop dime on her!
YOu should be happy that you have not had children with this type of woman! YOu would have been trapped with her in some form forever!
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2007-05-14 16:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dodged a major bullet there!
She acted out of her SELFISHNESS because SHE WANTED to be a wife.
She is not thinking about the other person, its all about her wants. Being part of a couple, no less a marriage is about thinking about more than JUST YOURSELF.
She isn't happy and until she can stop being selfish she will never be happy. What next she will want to be a mother and then not want her kids?
2007-05-14 16:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not happy if she's calling you. She married her old boyfriend out of desperation and probably to piss you off. She may say she's happy now but she's really miserable!
2007-05-14 16:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want from this woman? If you do not want anything from her, leave her alone to be with her husband. Otherwise, you're interfering with her relationship. If you do indeed want her, tell her and stop wasting her time. This way she can decide what she wants, as well.
2007-05-14 17:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust her she want to spend a time only with you
2007-05-14 16:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Miral N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋