2007-05-14 08:42:58 · 29 answers · asked by buttercup331106 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, its OK to cheat if you found out something he done bad. and never told you about it
2007-05-16 11:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by purpledog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope! I don't think that it is ever right to cheat. if you've found out something bad about his past and you're angry then you should talk to him about it. If you two can't possibly work through this then just get out of the relationship because cheating with only make things so much worse!
2007-05-14 15:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entirely up to you....but if you cheat, don't even think about using this as an excuse...you will find that if you cheat just once, you will never trust your mate again, no matter what he does. I don't think that this is a good way to get even...and in fact, I don't think that there is a place in a relationship to "get even." IF you feel that way, it might be time to take a good look at the relationship and see if it is what you want. Good luck
2007-05-14 15:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont cheat unless you want the relationship to wither away. is what hes done so bad? unforgivable? if so then end it, and go get some. If its not that bad stay and work things out you'll be glad you did. if you cheat you will regret it for the rest of your life!
2007-05-14 15:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he cheated and I found out I would be gone so fast I wouldnt have time to cheat.
2007-05-14 15:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it was while the two of you were together then its an issue but if it wasn't then it not your business.
Regardless if you think its OK to cheat then you need to seek counseling cause you are warped.
2007-05-14 15:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because then you are just adding to the problem and that's not good. If he did something that was that bad just get out of the relationship and consider it a learning experience.
2007-05-14 15:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. If you do cheat you won't make yourself feel better. Believe me I've tried it and hated myself afterwards.
2007-05-14 15:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by thefireman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think 2 wrongs make a right? Why does him doing something wrong make it okay for you to do something wrong? Karma doesn't care that you are doing wrong out of revenge...why build up that negativity and make yourself a selfish, lying, betraying person?
What goes around, comes around...don't do anything that you wouldn't want done to you.
2007-05-14 15:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's never okay to cheat, if you can't deal with the bad thing he did break off the relationship...
2007-05-14 15:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Soccer Mom 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋