why does my mom annoy me, we never get along?

Question

almost every little thing she does it irritating.

by the way im almost 20

Answer 1

You must try thinking differently. Just think of what life would be with no mother at all.

Answer 2

Because, if your avatar is a photo of you, you're a teenager. Teens and their moms rarely get along. You're growing up, and feeling that your mom is trying to keep you from doing that. Your mom wants you to grow up and be a responsible adult, and so she's trying to teach you the things you need to know to do that, but everything she tells you, you instinctively do the exact opposite, just to prove to her that you really do know better, because she doesn't really have a clue. In a few years, you'll wish you had done it her way, but you won't learn that until after you're 20. I think Mark Twain said it best: When I was 14 I couldn't believe how stupid my father was, but when I was 21 I was amazed at how smart the old man had gotten in just 7 years! (or something like that)

Answer 3

ok. I would never in a million years find my Mom annoying. im 12 and I love my Mom. She keeps the house clean and she has raised me and my brother to be very good people and have put a good head on our shoulders. She is just two many words to say. WOW, NICE, COMFORTING, CLEAN. some moms cant take the beahvior of thier children so they feel like they give up and thats whats causing children to say these things. Doesnt it make you feel bad inside to call your Mom annoying?????? The girl two down under me is 100% wrong and i reported her. From what Im hearing I can picture her future. Making "love" at age 16 and having a child at age 16. No JOB. No one for help. And her Mom will say whatever because she has called her a femal dog. (b**ch) For heavans sake where has children gone there days. And I AM ONLY 12!!!! Do I sound like 20 because I have heard that. THINK ABOUT IT. PLEASE.

Answer 4

lol are you a teenager??

If so its probably the age, no effence.

It happens, you dont want to listen to her b/c you think you are old enough to deal with your own life. Maybe the things she does irrates you b/c they are not cool or things you dont want to hear. You are probably a bit imbarressed of your mother, and fear judgement from your peers due to your mothers actions.

Listen your peers will not judge you b/c of your mother...but its probably just the age you are at right now...dont worry about it, just a stage in life...you dont have to be uber close to your mother in these years...wait till your older...she is just being a parent loving her daughter...cant do much about ti :)

anyways best of luck..you will live through this i promise ;P

Answer 5

Why do you find your Mum irritating more imfo please !Your poor Mum ,she is a person in her own right try to remember that when you criticize her ,your life is changing and because of that fact so will your Mums.It is the law of nature but it does not make it any easier, for either of you ,keep open the communication channels.It is very important, try to imagine your life without your Mums support, do you think you would find it easy to cope ?

Answer 6

u r young and that is why u think u know and u will see that ur mom know and will share if u just take the time to listen and learn

Answer 7

You must be at the stage when teenage girls don't get alone with their mothers...

Answer 8

some parents can't cope with parenthood and how to talk to their kids...

best to live, ignore her and then when you get the chance, move out!!! :D

Answer 9

It's because you are immature.

Answer 10

Some mothers are b!tches. I know my mother is one.