I had a bf for 3 years and for past 3 months he had been pestering me to end the relationship coz of several lame reasons ...like m too fat not healthy or am not like other gals or i dnt have an aim or the list is endless.
But i wanted to hold on to this relationship and sometimes we were really happy and had an amazing time together.
But for the smallest of the fights he would have only solution ie break up. I found it so illogical and tried to apologise and make up whosoever's fault it was.
We broke up a fortnight back and then i apologised again and patched up and we had a good time again .
Today i went to his apartment and had a small fight and he wanted to break up and i begged him to find some solution to it and talk it out and then he hit me,dragged me by my hair pulled me hurt me in front of his friends and asked me to get outta his house and his life......
And now he told me that it was my fault that he behaved like that coz i wouldn't leave him .and i annoyed him.
2007-05-14 07:32:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Woman, please do not ever go back there or beg him to get back together with you. If you do this, you are telling him it is ok to hit you and humiliate you. That is not ok at all. Please move on. You've been with him a long time but now, you can end your pain! Just because you have really great times together doesn't mean you guys are compatible. Believe me, I know. It hurts, put have some pride. You may love him, but when he hurts you, love has nothing to do with that. You can do better, and be happy, not just some of the time.
2007-05-14 07:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by honeychild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think it is in your best interest to get out of the relationship and stay away from him. He is not a good person and no one should ever hit you in violence that was obviously deliberate to cause you harm or send you a message that he does not want you around. Unless he has a change of attitude or a change of heart he will not change for your benefit and his as well. It is for the best and there are plenty of guys who would not think of ever striking a woman deliberately ,but only in self-defense as a last resort. Please stay away from him it is for your own good.
2007-05-14 15:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell chick.....you need to realize that you are pestering him. If he's insisting to break up with you, take the hint! But you know what, you STILL need to call the police on him about the physical abuse! I've been thru that for 8 years, and there is NO EXCUSE FOR IT.
2007-05-14 14:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by it'sjustme79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His mistreatment of you is inexcusable. "Fault" isn't the issue. Walk away from the immature jerk. If it's meant to be, it'll be.
2007-05-14 14:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by mountainbird51 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This situation is not going to improve, move on.
2007-05-14 14:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Doona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What an idiot. Forget about him. Why do you want someone like that.
2007-05-14 14:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can't be your fault alone! It takes two hands to clap!
2007-05-15 05:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋