My best friend is getting married and has asked me to be her bridesmaid and I was very excited because I love weddings. Finally the time to get the dresses comes and she sends the other bridesmaids and I the price of the dresses. The price for me is not that bad. Well, I wish this was the only problem with her wedding planning, but obviously there is more. She has informed us that we will not be included in the pictures she will take with her Husband and that we will have to find our own way of transportation to church because we are not going with her in the Limo. Is is fair for us to not be in the pictures, I mean how will we have proof of even participating in the wedding and having to find our own transportation. I have spoken to the other bridesmaids and they do not think it is reasonable for not being included in the pictures or transportation. All of us are freshman in college, we don't have the funds to pull off all her wedding. So is there anyway that we can let her know in what position she is putting us in and do you think this is fair?
2007-05-14 07:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
um....ok...I don't know exactly why the bride is choosing not to photograph her wedding party but that is her choice. There will be plenty of people there with cameras that can take pictures of you... and ...last I checked it wasn't the bride and groom's responsibility to get the bridal party to the church...can't you guys carpool? None of you have cars?
I really don't get why this is a problem for any of you....
2007-05-14 07:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not being in the pic's is weird, usually the bride wants a picture of her entire wedding party as well as couple/family pictures.
As for the limo, I have been in 5 weddings, and never rode in a limo once. Thats not a given in a wedding. I didn't even have a limo at my own wedding.
2007-05-14 14:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you say BRIDEZILLA! All of the bridesmaids need to put her in her place. She wants YOU to be in her wedding. You didn't ask to be in it so she should be appreciative that you are taking on such a big role for her and being at her disposale for the wedding.
2007-05-14 14:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats just wrong.
2007-05-14 14:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by its_keeps_getting_better 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt make any sense to me, that is weird
2007-05-14 14:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Newlywed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋