my girl broke up with me, now she is pregnant, i hate my job - there really isnt nothing good going for me right now - sometimes i get so upset and my heart hurts so bad that i honestly think im going to pass out -
2007-05-14 06:55:07 · 16 answers · asked by anthony c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've been through that and I can understand how shitty and terrible you must be feeling right now. You need to be patient. WIth time, things will come back into place for you but until then, it might continue to be painful. AS FOR JOBS, there are better jobs around for you. What kind of work are you doing right now? Have you ever visited www.jobs.gc.ca then clic on job opportunities and select your territory? I have worked for the income tax for two years and I only had a high school degree at the time. One last hint, when you fell MOST creepy, get out, go for a long walk and eventually, u will meet someone who will start talking .. it will be simple and heartlifting
2007-05-14 07:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by moiatoi2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a vacation! But since that is easier said than done, it seems like you just need a fresh start. Maybe you can go away for a fun weekend with a friend. Try and have a fun time. Also, it would be really good for you to either start writing down everything that is bothering you or talking to someone about it. The main thing is just getting it out of your system. You are bottling it up right now. Can you also start looking for another job? That will also help you get a fresh start. Are you looking for a relationship? You might try eHarmony. I have heard a lot of people have been successful with that. But for your physical symptoms, I would talk to your regular doctor or to a counselor soon.
2007-05-14 14:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's depression. You will eventually feel better. Try to hang out with some friends and do some things that are fun. Keep busy and active. Activity will keep your mind busy and you won't spend time dwelling on the pain you are feeling. You shouldn't expect to feel better immediately. It will take some time to get back into the swing of things.
If the baby is yours,(no offense meant, but you did not say) you should be involved as much as possible. I'd let her know that you are going to wait for a while to get your life straight, but when the due date is near you want to be a part of the birth and stay involved in the raising of the child.
Good Luck
2007-05-14 14:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, calm down and take a deep breath and exhale.
Our lives are what we make it to be. If this isn't what you no longer want in your life, break free from it and get to where you want to be.
Do you want your gf in your life? Is there hope that you can get back together with her?Do you want to be a part of your child's life on a day to day basis? Is there a possibility to find another job or find the source of the job that you do not like and fix it?
You cannot stay in this state of mind because you will be defeated and you cannot allow life to defeat you. Make a change and pray to God for deliverance.
2007-05-14 14:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know having kids is really not that bad. I have 3 of them and I'm only 26. Knowing that when you have a boy they will carry on your name. A girl is so cute to have. Beside when they smile for the first time at you. You will melt. For the Job theres more out there so get back out there and find one cause you got something to live for so be a man and make up for your hormones
2007-05-14 14:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by sticks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At one point everyone goes through a rough time. If you have friends who make you laugh and you can hang out with them…that’s great!
This gal who dumped you doesn’t deserve you.
Look at the positive in live and put out + so you receive +’s.
Keep you head up and good luck!
2007-05-14 14:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry im going thru the same stuff im young heartbroken lame job... as you im still feeling wack,hopeless and tired of trying but its like they say we got to get thru tis can no1 esle can help us expect for our own self... i know it easier said then done but it will get better stay up and strong this is life testing us
2007-05-14 14:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by AR s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed. This is a physical AND an emotional problem. You need to see your primary care physician and tell him your symptoms, including how you are eating and sleeping. He (or she) will probably suggest counseling and perhaps drugs.
Do not let this get worse. Seek treatment now. I know it doesn't seem like you need to see a doctor, but you do.
2007-05-14 13:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by Shaky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that minor crap is the worst you've had to deal with, you MUST be very young. I've dealt with much worse before breakfast. I've survived attempted murder(ex conned a murderer) lived in my car- eating roadkill, dealt with a brother sleeping with my wife, and had to throw my own daughter out of my home. I've had my job end, and been forced to find a new job, when over 50. That which fails to destroy you, makes you stronger. Learn to laugh at the crap life throws at you.
2007-05-14 14:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
This too shall pass...it may get worse first though...it will pass in time though...the light at the end of the tunnel just may not be a train...
2007-05-14 13:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by jeffwilliams1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋