Were they extra jerky to you, I mean did everything you do piss them off, I mean everything, to the way I cough, eat, drink my soup, etc. Is this just evidence of someones hardened heart?
2007-05-14 06:44:13 · 13 answers · asked by fstmx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes.
2007-05-14 06:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by "LuckyStar" 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely evidence of hardened, guilty & a critical heart! Yep the blame game was on big-time. Apparently it was "all" my fault" it was like I was the "thorn in his side "almost as a constant reminder to his guilty conscience one he found hard to self justify, live with and deny. Mentally he had to stack it this way, as this was the only way he could bear living with the fact the he, (not I) was the one who looked outward of our marriage. Silly thing is, I almost started believing him, thinking “well maybe if I did it this way, maybe that way, our marriage would still be intact!” by the grace of God I see now how me & my children were spared from constant blame and the anguish of a spouse picking on every little thing, even the things that were/are good & lovely! So yes “extra jerky” lived here as well ï
2007-05-14 21:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-05-14 13:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by ELDER 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In short, yes. There was definetly a change in behavior, and all those things you just listed are classic warning signs. Beware of secret email addresses, myspace pages, and staying up insanely late. Life sucks, then you get over it.
2007-05-14 13:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by mixedup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Absolutely! That was how I became suspicious in the first place. She became openly hostile. I did some investigating and found out she was cheating. It's fairly common I think. They want out so they don't even try anymore. Women are evil.
2007-05-14 13:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ronin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, when I started to feel that way about my ex husband of 12 years it was OVER! I was fed up and wanted out. And it wasn't long after that I left. However, it doesn't necessarily mean that she's having an affair.
2007-05-14 13:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex got on my nerves like that, and i wasnt having an affair! Everything he did was truely annoying. Needless to say he ended up having an affair! Does that count??
2007-05-14 13:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Me, myself, & I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he treated my like total s%#t. Blamed me for everything, it makes the person cheating feel justified in what they were doing. They can't face that they are the ones to blame so they try to blame there inocent spouse.
2007-05-15 00:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is...You need to get out now before it gets too late
2007-05-14 13:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He treated me like ****. Made everything out to be my fault when low and behold - it was all his fault.
Couldn't tell you what it is in your case though.
2007-05-14 13:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋