I've never had the big "O" (you all know what I mean). Is there something wrong with me, something I'm not doing right or is it just the guys I've been with?
Everyone says, "oh it's amazing....the best feeling in the world!" But darn it, I've never had one and I've been active for 4 years!
2007-05-14 06:39:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
if i want to make sure i get one, i do it myself. i mean being with guys are fun but there's no guarantee you will reach one.
one of the good ways you can get one is: lubricating your fingers (by any means, maybe your saliva or juices) and move it up and down your vagina reaching up to your clit or in gentle circles around the clit, you should adjust the pace and pressure as you please untill you reach one.
this way is really guaranteed: uasing water. open the tap in your tub adjust the heat and the pressure and just lay there, you will reach one in less than five minutes. or if u want to control this manually use the shower head.
2007-05-14 06:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I've heard, most guys can't last long enough in bed to bring you to a climax.
So you should try to get half way there through foreplay and other types of stimulation before actually engaging in intercourse.
2007-05-14 23:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by mr coffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them are faking. Also watch some video or learn books on sexual positions and how to stimulate places. Study with your partner if you would like, or go see a sex therapist. I am serious. This is what they do to educate people about concern such as yours.
2007-05-14 06:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to get a little more familiar with your body & experiment with a vibrator. Then you will be able to direct your partner as to the right way to stimmulate you. Your "o" will come soon enough. Also, your problly stressing out about it. If you don't relax, You won't ***.
2007-05-14 06:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by shellysd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MANY MANY Women DO NOT Orgasm with intercourse. There is nothing wrong with you. You need to explore your own body and find out what makes you orgasm when you are by yourself and then you can show your partner what works. When you do not orgasm with intercourse your partner then needs to bring you to orgasm either manually or orally. For now find out what makes you orgasm when you are alone so you can show or tell or guide your partner.
2007-05-14 06:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a really excellent sex toy. Most men are not all that talented.
2007-05-14 06:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes, its easier if you try by yourself to learn how to, try masturbating then have him give you oral sex, then orgasm thru sex will come next, you have to know your body. & most men dont know anything so you have to teach them 100% the way. good luck to you.
2007-05-14 06:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It might be the guys you've been with. Have you tried playing with yourself?
2007-05-14 06:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
have your partner rub your clit during the act or you can do it
2007-05-14 07:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by kc_swing04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋