I need some ways to spice up my sex life with my hubby please helpppppppppppppppppppp! My problem is I dont feel to comfortable doing the kinky stuff I want to get out of that we have been together for 6 years now and I need some spice.
2007-05-14 06:17:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't feel comfortable with kinky - try romantic and seductive. Both my guy & I are not that into some of your more S&M - however we spice it up with lotions and potions and sexy talk on the phone - his cell picture for when I call him is a naked shot of my breasts - he loves it when I call while he's at work or even funnier when I call and he's helping my dad with the yard work or something.
Check out your local sex shops - not everything in them is dildo's & whips! Talk with your husband about his desires - not fantasies - but would he like to come home from work and find you cooking dinner with nothing but your apron on & stuff, have fun with it.
Every now & then - especially when we are going to a social gathering - I'll let him know that I'm not wearing any panties & he started doing it in return - I'll tell ya - the first time he did it - I was making up excuses to leave early & get his naked butt home!
Recently we "shaved" one another - let's just say that experience is one we'll repeat often!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Other times, we get away from it all and take ourselves to a romantic dinner & hotel room w/ a jacuzzi! He also loves it when I give him "foot" massages under the table when we go out to eat!
You do not have to get overly kinky to give intimacy a flare - just have to be creative and so into your partner that your mind just lets go!
2007-05-14 06:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by martiek7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get comfortable to the kinky stuff if you want to spice things up. Talk dirty to him or get some toys. You can even get some sexy lingerie. If you're not willing to do any of these things then you're sex life is a lost cause.
2007-05-14 13:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Start to get competitive with him. Play checkers, chess, backgammon, cards, hiking whatever like it the world championship. That little competitiveness will slip into the bedroom and the next thing you know you will be trying to out do each other in marathon sex.
2007-05-14 14:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of some things that you do like to do. Taking it to a hotel could add some spice. Or have him try to pick you up in a bar.
2007-05-14 13:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the book "101 nights of great sex"
2007-05-14 13:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can help you with that very easily! My company is called "Romantic Etc." It all depends on how "spiced up" you want to get. You can let me know by email at kygallman@yahoo.com
2007-05-14 13:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Amiriquoi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can bring some things in the bedroom like whipped cream, you can put that anywhere on his body and lick it off. You can also put some honey on his " thing" and lick that off. the honey is thick and will take a while to lick off and he will thoroughly enjoy that.
2007-05-14 13:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start small- with something you wouldn't usually do but aren't totally uncomfortable with. You don't have to leap right inot the 'big' kinky things.
2007-05-14 13:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by magy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kinky?? who needs it? anyways... let me tell you something.. men, love it when you compliment them.. tell him how sexy he is.. how in love you are with him... be flirty with him more than 100%... do positions that you and him are comfororable with... dance for him... rub your body with his... do stuff that maybe he is not expecting... feel very very sexy... and most of all just love him.. you can start with a massage maybe there sensitive areas are... all around his privates... they love it when you nibble there ears.. do a lot of foreplay.. HAVE CONTROL! they love that... and there are a lot of positions... if you go to sex positions on yahoo.... try it...
2007-05-14 13:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by ; ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least you are doing something about it...before someone does it for you.......Start by watching the weight! make an effort to be sexy when he comes home, make up, dress to impress..wear stockings...tell him you always feel sexy in them....give loads of O always to completion! AND DIFFERENT locations. Not just around the house....car parks..outdoors.semi public...add a slight risk.....doit in front of DVD's....act out some of the things on screen.....A men love A and shave that beaver.......good luck xxxx
2007-05-14 13:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋