she is about 15years younger than me and is a friend of the family. But, I am so damn attracted to her. Her husband doesn't appreciate what he has.
2007-05-14 05:36:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok....i'll take the advice of the majority here and not act on it.....the chemistry is strong though but I know what you all are saying.
2007-05-14 05:52:10 · update #1
Stay the hell out of her life. That is what you do. Starting a relationship like this is only going to doom it. She is married and off limits. Control yourself and butt out. If it was the other way around you would be livid. Put yourself in her hubby's shoes for a sec and see how you would like this.
2007-05-14 05:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not want to cheat with a married woman. Think about it if she would cheat with you she would cheat with someone else. Work half as hard on your marriage as you are about thinking about having an affair you would be happy.
You are not appreciating the wife that you have at home.
She is also, too young. think about it when you are 65 ready to retire she will be 50 still ready to run and play.
BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE !!!! The grass always looks greener. I can tell you there are few brown stops on that side too, and if you break up two families , you are going to have alot of burnt grass that will never be the same.
2007-05-14 12:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a home wrecker! If they split up on their own,then see her if you and her choose to.If you get inbetween you run the risk of loosing a friend and making enimies.You might even hurt others that are involved around them.Your 15years older than her,you should know better.Be flattered but don't go there!
2007-05-14 12:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by jagette2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. If its meant to be then it will happen. Getting involved with someone that is married can really screw your life up. I had a friend that was having an affair with his friend's girlfriend's mother (a mess) anyways it came out that the mother was cheating on her husband and not only was she sleeping around with my friend she was also sleeping with other men as well. Needless to say - he was head over heels in love with this woman and after it all came out - the lies that she told - to this day he hates women and will never be in another relationship because she lied to him and told him that she wanted to be with him and loved him and was waiting for the right moment to leave her husband - he was in this relationship for 3 to 4 years and all along she was stringing him along.
2007-05-14 12:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ena Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead...mess the family up because of your selfishness. Don't come crying to us when some pissed off husband shows you how much he appreciates you ruining his family. Leave the married girl alone and find somone single...if you can.
2007-05-14 12:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by jeffwilliams1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he doesn't appreciate what he has? Let her get a divorce if she is so unhappy. In the meantime, leave her alone...she is MARRIED.
Put the shoe on the other foot...If you had a wife, would you want her looking to another man?
Look for someone single....
2007-05-14 12:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you to not to get involved with her, but I will say think about the type of person that would have an affair while married.
Selfish - affairs are about their happiness not their spouse's.
Liars - no one tells their spouse "I'm going out to have an affair now. See you later"
Do you really want to start something with a selfish liar?
However, if she is really hot and you have nothing to loose go for it!
2007-05-14 13:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good to have these feelings for a married woman. Until she gets a divorce, she is off limits to you. She has promised her life to someone else. I wonder if she has told you he is a bad husband or if you're just speculating and hoping. Look for someone who is not attached.
2007-05-14 12:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. She married him because she loved him. She may be looking at you, may be attracted to you but she loves him. Unless she is getting divorced soon I would just forget about it and try to move on. Otherwise you are going to put yourself in a very sticky situation.
2007-05-14 12:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a decent guy, you would not pay so much attention to a married woman. Set your sights on single women. Come on, have some ethics.
2007-05-15 04:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋