I think i am boring???

Question

when I am around ppl i get the feeling that i am rlly boring to them, what should i do?

Answer 1

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I'm joking! Be yourself! Find like minded people! Don't try and impress the cool kids! I'm guessing your a computer geek! You'll be earning ten times what they are in ten years! Then you can spit at them!! lol

Answer 2

People tend to be boring if they don't have much to add to a conversation. If you want to be less boring, try to learn as much as you can about various subjects or topics. Read more, learn new skills, develop some hobbies and be a part of the conversation. Don't just sit there and listen like a wallflower. Ask questions and listen to the response so that you can take the conversation further or give your opinion. Compliment people on whatever you admire about them. Speak up. You are probably just as intelligent or more so than some of the people who talk a mile a minute.

Answer 3

Well u said it my friend. If u think that way don't u think other people feel the vibes from u? You probably don't give a lot of input when there is conversation going on, do u? If ur going to talk be sure that u know what u are talking about, for one thing. Don't make a fool of urself if u don;t know what u are talking about. Conversation is everything. Look under the current events in ur newspaper to see what the haps is in ur community.

Answer 4

Okay, here are several suggestions. I wouldn't take them all seriously. They're just silly icebreakers.

1. Get a tattoo of Condoleeza Rice. It's a great conversation starter. Henna, maybe.
2. Pack hamsters in your pocket. Take them out and offer them to random people you meet.
3. Occasionally go up to a street sign and yell at it. Get others to join in with you.
4. And if all else fails, start off with a good joke. Or an imaginary friend.

Answer 5

Study up on "interpersonal communications". I took a class in school and it taught me about other people's personality types and how you can make good conversation with anyone!! Also, get out and do things so you have things to talk about..... If you sit home all day you're not making any good and interesting memories. Keep in mind though, your true friends are gonna like you for who you are. Don't change for anyone, just get out and enjoy the world a little and be comfortable in your conversations.... Laugh, have fun! Life's supposed to be a good time, ease up a little. Don't worry so much about what people think! Good luck and God bless!!

Answer 6

Don't be so hard on yourself.
Maybe they are boring. Find a group of people who like to talk about the same things you do.
Don't worry so much what other people think. Do you think you are a boring person? Do you think you have nothing in common with the people you hang out with?
That could be the main problem.
Also, are you on the same level intellectually? Think about it.

Answer 7

I also think I am boring to people when I talk. I started to get a more frequent sense of humor and that makes me feel less boring when I talk. When you start feelin boring just say a quick little joke and get the people back to paying attention.

Answer 8

before you put your self down try to practise body language its special skill talk into the mirror learn to place your hands & body in the right place you can take a corse in this look at downer the pollitition if you had taken notice of him when he run to be piminister to what he is to day he did acause he has improved 80% i can only give him that because i dont like the man out of 10 i would have given him about 2 for his body lang now i give him 8 out of 10 you can look these people up in the phone book may be they will teach you a lot & give you confidence in your self you are as good as the next person god created us all = dont give up if you learn this body lang you will be suprised god luck to you

Answer 9

If you feel like you are boring to them, I would bet that they are boring you. Try hanging out with people that have the same interest as you.

Answer 10

First of all u have to see what type of guy u are in between your pals:

1. Always quite and suddenly speaks in between (something ruthless)

2. Always chattering

3. Always saying some bull **** (whenever u speak).

whenever u adopt such thing, your friends get annoyed and dont feel to talk to u (probably)

So just try to maintain the balance keepin silent and speaking worthful, elz u got something in mind and feel that will annoy them, then just dont speak.