I have this online friend! He's been there for me! Umm..I had a b-day party this past weekend yeah I got drunk! But I had an addiction to something illegal! He was helpin me! Well I was clean for a few weeeks now! Last night I did something illegal! How can I show him how truly sorry I am! I feel as if I have decieved him! It was the last time for this! I know if i were straight I would have said no! I just feel soooo bad! He's been helpin me and I went and did that! What was I thinkin? How can I prove to him that I am truly sorry?
2007-05-14 01:18:46 · 12 answers · asked by boobear 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I couldnt hide it from him! He said he sensed it! and I cant lie no matter who it is! Thought only girls could sense stuff like that..lol..guess not!
2007-05-14 02:28:28 · update #1
Amy one good thing about all this is that you have addimitted of doing something wrong , , this takes a lot of courage to do , , , So what to do about this , first of all amy , try to say how sorry you are about that night , , to the person who has been helping you , , then , what i would like you two to do is sit down and communicate with each other , , such as talk about what you did wrong to him , ask him for his advise , ,tell this friend just what a fool you have been to do what you did , and amy if you are going to say this to him then mean what you say to him , example , do not get up from your communication talk and the go and do what you did 4 hours later . AMY in this situation you find yourself right now the only thing you can do , is to talk about it , with this man , ,you cannot prove anything to him , what you have to try and do is for you man to feel that he can trust you , and that you will be honest with each other , yes if he was helping you yes you did decieve him . what he would like to here from you , i am sure is that he can trust you , and if you find yourself wanting to do this again , stop and think and go and seek his help or someone you know preferable you man would be better , amy also you mention that you have an addition to something illigal , well if i was you i would be going for help , and talk to the people that will help you , , you have nothing to be ashamed of , if you are addited to something that you know you should not have . i wish you good luck for the future ,
2007-05-14 01:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Tranquilty 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Being sorry is such an easy thing to say.
What's harder is knowing there's something to be sorry about. You seem to have mastered that.
Get someone to send him a link to this site, so he can see that you are seeking help elsewhere. there are other sites that will give moral support- like http://www.facetheissue.com
As for letting your friend know, the only way to prove it is to stay as clean as you can. Keep talking- if he'll let you. And let him know how hard it is for you. Tell him how much you appreciate his help and also that you know you made a mistake. then try again, and succeed, say no! (I realize it's easier said than done.) And once you've done it once, it should get easier- and he'll see you are trying.
2007-05-14 08:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some time and think on what or how this relapse happened. and try not to put yourself in that situation again. It is hard, very hard, believe you me. Be honest to yourself FIRST! Write your feelings, keep a journal, or even get an object (a pet, something you charish) and talk to it, it won't tell you what to do or critisize, but you might hear something from yourself. GOOD LUCK
2007-05-14 08:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by joebobbeaubob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first problem you have is solved....admitting both addictions are lethal to your decision making processes. Now, you can appologize , mean it and stick to it this time. It will take time for him to re-faith in you again. If he is a true friend he , too, will realize that we all make mistakes and sometimes we ARE really sorry. So, time can be your enemy but mostly if you use it wisely ; a friend.
2007-05-14 08:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by missellie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a small but tasteful gift
A sophisticated looking ornament for the home perhaps
Then buy him a good cigar and pamper him a lot.
2007-05-14 08:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by malcolmg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by stop using exclamation points like that.
Then, sober up, clean yourself, and move on. Stay away from that poor guy. He is trying to help you and you behave like that.
2007-05-14 08:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Thespiana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A gift soften the heart.
2007-05-14 08:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should try to give up drinking too.
Just tell him you are truly sorry and you will not
do it anymore.
2007-05-14 08:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by chmar11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your honesty
you could have hidden it from him
be honest, and if hes a good friend will understand
we all make mistakes
good luck
2007-05-14 08:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a chocolate. or an ice cream.
good luck!
2007-05-14 08:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by x 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋