Isnt it better just to let your feelings known and see what happens? Or do you always want to wonder what could have been? I see questions on here talking about crushes on people and stuff. Just tell them! =P
2007-05-14 00:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Fear of rejection. Life would be so much easier if everyone was honest and kind.
2007-05-14 00:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say fear of what may happen and fear of rejection, sometimes just hoping for something on the inside gives you a good feeling and hoping to find out what the other persons feelings are first, some are pretty shy and have problems coming right out and saying it.
That shy one is the hard one to get over.
Good luck
2007-05-14 10:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by David R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people learn to keep feelings a secret from others. Others are too scared that the person they crush on will not feel the same way they do. It's easy for you to say, "just tell them" = but it's rarely easy to do in real life.
2007-05-14 07:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by leesa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the crushes are wanton, like unhaveable. Maybe the person has a girlfriend or wife.
2007-05-14 07:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by AxisofOddity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, I know plenty of people have crushes on me. But for some reason they send their love letters disguised as hate mail, whats up with that. I mean grow a spine already and admit it geez.
2007-05-14 07:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like all the other answers: Fear of rejection.
Nobody wants to put their heart out there in case it gets squashed
2007-05-14 07:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably fear of rejection, humiliation, loss of friendship.
2007-05-14 07:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by barbara b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i never tell them cuz im afraid that they dont feel the same way about me. i like to know if they like me first!
2007-05-14 07:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by froggagoo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the fear of rejection is a powerful deterrant
2007-05-14 08:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by sarahmoose2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most things are better left as fantasy.
2007-05-14 07:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by latymer_crown 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋