Actually , i have "girlfriend" more than " boy" , so i dun think i have any problem wif gals . Another problem that is i never have sex dream wif gals. i think is really big promblem for me , i just have dream about biy only > Should i go to see doctor ??? Or tell my parents ??
2007-05-13 22:11:41 · 14 answers · asked by dumplings 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well if you have dreams about boys all the time and never girls then maybe you are gay...and definitely if you have more friends that are girls than boys then you must be as gay guys tend to get on much better with girls and only hang around with girls. and just because you think your gay doesn't mean you need to go to the doctor! it isn't something they can cure!!!
2007-05-13 22:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should take your time to think about what you are feeling. Not every feeling is instantly abnormal. just ponder it for a wile. You sound young. what's the hurry... going to the doctors is the last thing I would do.. and telling my parents... well that is your choice, and they might be able to help you learn more about yr own sexuality. But most of all, just take your time. It will become clear what you want and who you want... it is not something you instantly decide. It just happens one way or another. Who knows, you might like both girls and guys.... so be very sure and just think this over more than once. Don't consider it a problem, just a choice. You are not sick, just developing. and a choice now, may not be your choice for ever.... you see, developing yr sexuality is a process, not an instant choice... that you don't dream about girls is not an illness, I don't dream about guys, but I'm still not a lesbian. I love guys, I just don't dream about them.... Hope you find something useful in here... have a good day! :)
2007-05-13 22:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said, I'm not sure I understand what the issue is. If you are thinking or dreaming about guys, thats completely normal (I'm assuming you are in your teens/twenties?) I'm not sure why you would go to the doctor, if you are gay the doctor cant cure that, not that its something to be cured. Some people have a negative view of gay people and some don't. I believe its completely normal. Anyway, I wouldnt stress about it, relax, go with the flow, you will find yourself soon without help from anyone. Just enjoy the ride, enjoy life, things will sort themselves out whether you discover that you are gay, bisexual or straight.
I'm not sure if any of this has helped, but i guess in summary i want to say dont worry if you are or you arent gay. Life has a funny way of working out, so just take care of yourself and take it easy.
2007-05-13 22:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There is no easy way for someone else to determine what your sexuality is, after all your sexuality is your own personal issue and it does not have to be communicated to all people. In understanding your sexual orientation you must be comfortable with the fact that you are unique and how you feel about yourself is going to be different than how I feel about myself. You have to decide what your sexuality is for yourself, through asking yourself questions and experimentation. But don't feel pressured to box yourself into a sexuality or a course of behavior that you do not feel comfortable with!"
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2007-05-13 22:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are turning into a gay. But it's still a beginning don't let yourself tobe a gay. Don't be a gay. It's not health psycology.
2007-05-13 22:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by AB.Christ'91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be gay, you don't need a doctor. Maybe you need a friend, a supportive or gay friend.
2007-05-13 22:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy Indigo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not gay. if you like a guy or you have a crush on a boy, that is when youre gay. dont worry your fine
2007-05-13 22:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u hav urge for sex with girl or boy or both
2007-05-13 22:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by all a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haf sex wif a girl..
2007-05-13 22:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by samdesign78 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should go for counseling to help you work through your emotions so you don't do something stupid.
2007-05-13 22:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by je 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋