what do you do when you love your best mate(male) and he's married with kids and so am I?

Question

We both know this is not right but we want to keep the friendship intact and no we did not sleep with each other and I am goind out of my wits. Our spouse knows we go out together and there is no objections. Tell me what am I supposed to do and he is younger than me!!

Answer 1

You are supposed to leave him alone before you both cheat on your spouses.

Answer 2

are u a male too? or either way male or female i think you are heading for a disaster you are both married, thank God u didn't sleep together yet, i think its best that u don't, think of your kids!! and the trust of your spouses thinking that you guys go out together as friends only!! that's not right!! or just be honest with your spouses the truth always comes out, and your kids will suffer the most!

Answer 3

Keep doing what you are doing and destroy a bunch of lives or stop seeing him and do the right thing and forget about him and focus on your dignity and your husband with whom you have made holy vows. Do the right thing and live without regret. I suggest that you join the Mormon Church and make your Marriage an Eternal one and be happy together. You are not going to keep in contact with this guy and stay out of his bed. Be strong and you will be happy that you preserved your dignity.

Answer 4

One word for you babyface "INFATUATION". A natural for human to feel that way since if their partner have a missing piece there and you found it in another person come to think of it there are alot broken families due to this. When parenting comes, don't you think it's time for you to think of your kids or soon-to-be kids of how you grew them up well? Just bear in mind your married because you chose it. Because you loved him and preparing yourself to get babies but then**snap! If you infatuated with this person or as you say you "like" him then think why did you fall in love with your spouse in the first place? Alot of excitement in your part-to-do list so you don't get bored and get another man to fulfill the needs when it's all there infront of u but u think another things. Just make sure what u do will not regret it sooner.

Answer 5

You're an adult, not a child. You have the power to resist your whims. If you feel like something's brewing, quit going out with your "friend" and start paying attention to your own man.

Or, go for it. Who knows, maybe he'll work things out with his wife and your husband will leave you alone when the two of you get caught. Oh, and you're kids will be embarrassed about their whore mother.

Answer 6

First...STOP going out with him. Second.....Start spending more time with your spouse....Avoid temptation....You are messing with a lot of lives here and this type of thing no matter HOW Innocent it is now will destroy a lot of lives..

Answer 7

Thanks you know it is not right, and please tell yourself you are both married, try to discipline urself how to act like one, simply by avoiding each other specially going out together,if your partners haven't commented on this it is because of their trust on you, time and time will come, you will both forget your status, so please concentrate on your family, remember children needs you and should be given attention more during their early stage, please don't think of yourself alone, but all the members of your family, your responsibility to them, so someday they won't neglect you, when you need them. Remember life is like a wheel, sometimes you are on top and sometimes down. Please take note of all the angles of life. Hope you both be enlightened by this simple message of mine.

Answer 8

Put the matches down and run. Playing with that kind of fire will cause a world of problems.

Answer 9

Enjoy and don't get caught and yes don't advertise like this....cheers.

Answer 10

make one wrong move and the relation ship is in ****......atleast your family lifes