My galfrnd left me 1 year ago and got married to another guy. but still i think of her and miss her terribly. i often feel jelous thinking about her that she is loving her husband more than me. do i still love her or not ? when will i get rid of this jelous feeling.
2007-05-13 21:28:09 · 29 answers · asked by lakme s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
listern to me brother.At the end of the day,as hard as it is to accept you can't make other people love you.
Look at peoples actions rather than their words.
She has gone off with some other dude and gotten married.
So the answer is write there,I think you deserve someone who wont treat you like second best.Have some self love and confidence,even if she was hott or whatever,her attitude stinks!And that will never change.Look after no.1,and a bit of self presevation is in order here.
Cut her loose bro,her memory and the whole thing,start looking for new dates.
There is literally millions of ladies out there.And i'm sure a few of them will be decent.
It's also not great being jealous,ive made the mistake myself,have trust with ur partner and good communication,and learn to give n take.you'll be happier in the long run.
2007-05-13 21:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to tell you how long it will take you to get over the ending of a relationship... although a year is really longer than it takes most people to at least mostly get over it.
But...you know what the best medication for the loss of a relationship is? A new relationship. There are tons more fish in the sea, buddy. Don't miss out on all the fun and other great girls because you're obsessing over the one who got away. If you really love her, let her go, and be happy that she has found happiness. It's hard to do, but it's the right thing. Good luck. :)
2007-05-21 18:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Brittnee S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes jealousy is part of love. When u love someone and something goes wrong we automatically tend to feel jealous. Thinking and missing her is coz u still love her but my dear its best you forget her since she is married now.If you really love her control your emotions and forget her.Carry on with your life you will find someone much better. I really hope that your being jealous and having bad feelings has not got anything to do with your ego coz she felt you and married someone else. Along with you being hurt, your ego has also been hurt and you can't still accept the fact that she left you and got married to someone else. I can understand hoe you feel but my advice to you forget her and start afresh.I'm sure you will get someone very nice and who will understand you much better. As you also know the second meaning of love is sacrifice so please carry on with your life and forget your girlfriend
2007-05-14 09:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by paradisegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, but since she is already married, try to look for someone who loves you more than you think your ex does and getting married to her husband is enough evidence she loves you less. Hope you got it and if you divert your attention from her , u will be surprise still many females are available who might love you truly, just move on and let time heals a broken heart. You will be amazed how it works. Please try..
2007-05-14 04:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by elmyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well jealousy is a part of being immature!!
I think you need to move on with your life instead of thinking about the girl you loved.
If you really love her, be happy for her that she loves her family and is settled.
Try indulge yourself in something constructive and move on with life,probably try settle down with someone!
2007-05-14 04:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by rhea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,i really do agree that jealousy is other part of love...
Hey!boy...the only thing that you can get rid of,of that feeling into your ex g.f is...just find another and show her that you can move on..Dont let your mind always thinking of her,let yourself think more about in your future..Find much better that her,not in physical appearance but of course much better in inner beauty!!!
2007-05-14 04:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yeah. I'd say you still love her. Or maybe just the feeling of being loved. I feel this way all of the time. I don't know what hurts more, seeing her with other guys or seeing her unhappy and knowing she wasn't happy with me. Do you feel this way?
2007-05-14 06:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by NJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love has no scope for jealousy. Possessiveness in love makes you jealous.When love incorporates an element of selfishness the element of jealousy also creeps in.
2007-05-20 21:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's an old saying; all's fair in love and war. and it relative to your question. whatever the reason you lost her so let it go, and move on, its not the easyest thing to do, but its not only the right thing to do, its only thing you can do.... all you can do is hang on to the memory, store it in the back of your mind some place and try to find another girl... moving on is hard, you just have to do it......
2007-05-14 04:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Back Attcha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can also say it as Frustration.
Yes, sometimes you may feel jealous about this.
Follow my motto in life:
Forget the Past
Live in Present
Think about Future
You will live happy as ever.
2007-05-14 04:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋