Is is okay to use them? Will this improve your s*x in the marriage?
I heard that men who are only allowed having an orgasm when their wifes want treat their wifes better.
2007-05-13 21:22:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I see excess sex as "Gluttony".
We all know what happens to our bodies when we eat too much chocolate ... we get fat right? This is an outward sign easy to pick up on. A person who over eats and becomes obese diminishes their appreciation of chocolate over time. With the numbing to the taste of chocolate, well, they may turn outward for other sensual flavors, tastes, and smells. This will fuel their addiction, and make them more gluttonous or FAT.
So too with sex. When a person has too much sex they become "Fat" in the sense that they over-consume. What was once exciting may get dull. New things need to be tried out ... new places ... and most dangerous to a marriage ... new people. "Sex Addiction" is a real problem. Not everyone has this; as not everyone is an alcoholic. However those with this addiction are challenged with a painful reality of sexual challenges. Too bad they don't show thier addition outwardly like a person who consumes too much chocolate ... (sigh).
In short, control, moderation, and total appreciation of what's available will help a person maintain a healthy sexual appetite without becoming numb to the enjoyment. If you were a piece of chocolate ... would you want to be ate by a 500 pound person or a person who weighed 130 pounds? Appreciation is major in a relationship.
2007-05-14 04:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
I have a site that is dedicated to chastity belts for men and their online mistresses. It's chastityweb
There are a few people that are looking for keyholders. There is also a forum. Leet me know what you think. Ciao
2007-05-14 16:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by ms_cunari 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you want to wear a chastity belt, by all means wear it. Whether it will actually improve anything is uncertain, but it might make you feel better.
2007-05-14 05:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know they made chasity belts for men............. I thought they were for women only.....................
In today's world, once a girl reaches puberty, her parents should force her to wear one until she's married. Then they can hand the key to unlock it over to her husband.
I've seen too many young girls, even 12 year olds, on this site finding out they're pregnant and don't know what to do...........
2007-05-14 08:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Number of studies have been made to determine if female ejaculate is expelled urine or another liquid. Some researchers continue to insist that it is urine and others say it is neither urine nor the milky, odorless secretion from the bartholin gland, which helps to lubricate the vagina when a woman is sexually aroused. Myself, I do not have an opinion as to what this fluid is. If a woman is experiencing some uncontrollable squirting at the time of orgasm and obtaining sexual satisfaction from it, what difference does it make as long as neither the woman nor her partner are being harmed. The sexual pleasure of a woman or a man should not be questioned when we are pleasuring ourselves or the pleasure is being experienced between consenting adults.
2007-05-13 21:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ronit R 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
just so you know, (real) men can use metal-cutting tools.
And some smarter ones will even find ways to remove the belt w/o wife noticing, and that will really improve their relationship.
That is if they can get around the whole luck of trust issue.
2007-05-13 21:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Heh. Sure, I think it would be a fantastic idea and commend him who tries it. Doing a little submissive performance thing once in a while can be great.
2007-05-13 23:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
fine if they they leave a big hole in the middle of the front of them.
Ah. c'mon, are you friggin' serious? Let's bring back blond merkins and the rack while we're at it. Nose hammers and water torture. Ducking stations.
sheeeeeeyit.
2007-05-14 06:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps if it were an S and M situation, where the man is consenting to have his freedom taken away like that. Otherwise, it sounds like abuse.
2007-05-13 21:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by Surely Funke 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think that any man would figure out a way to get out of it, and a real man doesn't need one.
2007-05-15 13:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋