Okay, there's this guy... He's a year younger than me and we're pretty close, I'm best friends with his sister blah blah...
Well a few months ago I noticed that the orientation on his myspace said "Not Sure." and thought it was fairly interesting, but didn't ask about it or anything.
He found a girlfriend, and changed his orientation to "Straight." (actually now that I think about it he still left it set to "Not Sure" but eventually changed it).
Well the other day, him and his girlfriend broke up... And about two days later he asked me if I was gay, and I didn't really answer but I sort of hinted that I was bi-ish, and he didn't seem to think anything of it, we still talked like normal.
Well just a few nights ago our conversations on MSN started getting just a tad bit flirtier. I remember, this is stupid, he had to go somewhere for an hour or so and when he got back I asked him if he missed me. He said "Dude I'm not your bf... or am i?"idk what to do,i really like him.advice?
2007-05-13 18:59:00 · 15 answers · asked by Dude~ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
(sorry i ran out of characters to work with)
I just don't know if he likes me and what I should do, I'm really attracted to him and I just wish that there was a solid way of knowing.
2007-05-13 19:00:03 · update #1
I think he's playing coy with you to keep the mystery going.
That's half the fun of starting a passionate love affair.
Sometimes I call my guys "dude", just to tease.
Give him time, and when he flirts, take the bait!
It may turn out to be an awesome relationship.
2007-05-13 20:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by teetiger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In April I got my period a day or two late. It was very light. It only lasted one day and then stopped. I thought nothing of it. Because my husband and I have been trying for over a year now. So we just thought we didnt work. lol This Month, I was late about a week. I still thought nothing of it. But asked my sister in law for the extra pregnancy test she had. I waited till the next morning. Which felt like years of waiting. And took the test as soon as I woke up. I waited 5 minutes. I got a dark line and a very faint line. I came here to see what that meant since i didnt have directions. It said pregnant! I went to the doctor to see if this was true. And we are 9 weeks along now. I have very sore breasts, nausea, BAD Fatigue, And my husband has to drive because I forget where Im at and zone out. Even if your on the pill no matter for how little or how long. You really could be pregnant, I suggest you go to a different doctor who will test you sooner.
2016-05-17 11:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a little hard with only this much info but it sounds like he's confused and dosn't know wat to do if he thinks he might like men then y not hav a relationship with someone like you and u can show him a good time
but he's probly thinking what people would say if they found out so he's not sure if he wants to tell anyone if he is unsure and if it got around he was bi or gay and he found out he wasn't then he would become emo and kill himself so if you realy must know tell him u r and see if he sayes anything back that would help u
cause i know it was hard for me at first it took a while this chick was flirtin with me and i needed to know i could trust her befor i could make a move so if u can wait do so but keep on flirtin
good luck
2007-05-13 19:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by frosty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like he likes you. Be careful though, because losing the friendship would be bad. Just tell him the story that you have a friend that you thinks likes you, kinda ask him what he would do, and see where he stands before you tell him that you have feelings for him.
2007-05-14 09:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kim's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough with the flirting! Tell him you're gay and that you think he's hot and see how he reacts. This beating around the bush can go on for years. You're older, so take charge. And good luck.
2007-05-14 05:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help or talk to a pastor. Unless you were born with a xxy chromosome, excessive thoughts of a same sex relationship are not normal. Many younger people today feel free to indulge their curiosity only to have it manifest into a serious disorder.
The more you indulge in such things, the more likely it is you'll train your body to become aroused during times with your male friends.
If you've always been attracted to guys, your gay.....it's too late. Just go with what you know.
If your not sure about yourself, or how to act around your friends, get help now before you do something you'll regret the rest of your life.
What ever you decide, please do it safely.
2007-05-13 19:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by wernerslave 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
In todays culture and society, many people wind up being "unsure of their orientation" Remember that wether it is right or wrong, (I think it is wrong) your "orientation" is based on the decisions you make yourself, and you shouldnt try to drag someone towards homosexuality who is tetering on the edge. On a completely non-moral platform, id say that it sounds like he is experiancing tempations, but in the end is a strait guy, and is absolutely not interested in you at all.
2007-05-13 19:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Fendor 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You could try being direct with him in this regard. Talk to him about how you feel for him. Since he seems unsure about his own sexuality, be prepared for the possibility that he may not swing your way.
2007-05-13 19:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is flirt away with him, until he feels comfortable and then, if he's interested the 'next step' can come from him.
2007-05-13 19:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you think he got over his ex-gf so quickly?
Men!
anyway...kinda hard to tell if he likes you by that...but if you like him...and want something more than just friends, dont you think it will be hard for you to see him if it doesnt wrk out, just bk he is ur friends brother?
good luck*
2007-05-13 19:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋