I fantasize mainly with homosexual or bisexual sex acts, but for some reason I have never found men cute, nor have I ever had feelings for a man and I have never had a crush on a man. I just want sex with them. On the other hand I fall in love with woman and enjoy the great things that go along with those feelings like cuddling a woman, I find them beautiful, want to spend my intimate time with a woman. This has confused the heck out of me and actually is causing me a lot of stress. Help!!!
2007-05-13 16:50:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You do have to get this out of your system before tying yourself down to a woman. It sounds like you just like to "get down" with the guys but are not interested in a relationship.
2007-05-13 16:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are just being a man, period.
Guys are more for-the-moment than women. We can **** and run with little guilt. Chicks, on the other hand, agonize over relationships and all that hooey because that is how they are taught.
I've never had a relationship with any of the men I've balled, except this one bisexual character who sort of came and went (so to speak) and came back again over a year's period. I'd rather just have a **** buddy and forget about the relationship aspect. Some guys want to marry each other and all power to them but it just ain't me, nor is it that way for a lot of guys, gay or straight.
2007-05-13 17:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by mabster60 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you define cute? It sounds to me like you are experiencing some form of physical attraction to the male anatomy. Be honest with yourself, your statement indicates that you do find men attractive.
I would say that you have one of two issues
1- You are gay or bisexual, but as of currently you have only managed to connect with the opposite gender on a more intrinsic and platonic (non-sexual) level, yet your bits and pieces are screaming for men.
2- Your desire to have sex with men or conduct sexual acts that involves other men, is a mere fetish. It may not be inspired by an innate attraction to men, or their personalities, but rather just the fulfillment of a curioisity.
In any case it is important to remember that sexuality is not rigidly defined, it is more like a range.
There are all types of levels of intimacy amongst individuals. There's people who like straight sex, but find themselves intimately alligned, and more connected with those of the same gender, so why is it not likely for the opposite to occur?
At the end of the day, you have no reason to be stressed unless there is something else in your life which is affecting your choice of behavior, for example, an underlying religious or moral belief or the fear of being exposed. You alone, can answer that question, and you will need to choose an appropriate and healthy balance, that will leave you comfortable in the end.
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Hope that helps.
2007-05-13 17:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by themanwithnoname 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people distinguish "homosexuality" from "homoerotica". If you believe in that distinction, you are probably a homoerotic heterosexual. Other people would call you gay, and still others would say you're bisexual. Of course, you retain the right to call yourself whatever you please.
The big question is whether you are adequately sexually aroused by women, because if you want a lasting relationship, it looks like it'd be with a woman and sex is a crucial part of such a relationship.
And if you want a loving, long-term committed relationship, you have to be faithful. This means no sex with anybody else, man or woman.
And lastly, you should be honest with women (and men) about your sexual preferences.
2007-05-13 16:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
probable the main consistent, precise romance animes i've got seen are certainly yuri shows (Strawberry Panic and Kashimashi lady Meets lady, the only 2 quickly-up yuri animes i've got seen). This probable isn't a twist of fate, yet i do no longer understand the rationalization for it. after all, neither of those are meant for woman audiences. Strawberry Panic has no english dub, Kashimashi could have one. different than that, the main romantic anime i've got seen is probable Clannad, which as additionally made for a male aim industry. the only 2 shoujo shows i've got seen (end result Basket and Ouran severe college Host club) weren't certainly very heavy on the romance. All 3 have dubs attainable.
2016-10-15 22:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek a psychiatrist, or get lessons in loving a man. Men are lovable, and can be as emotionally fulfilling to be with as women.
2007-05-13 16:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should probably be with a woman, but use anal toys to satisfy your sexual needs.
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2007-05-15 11:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. What about this guy: http://www.mostbeautifulman.com/actors/camgigandet/bio.shtml
Does that do anything for you?
2007-05-13 22:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Surely Funke 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya become a man you sick sob what you do is discosting and wrong now to girls is hot but yo guys that just the sickist thing i have ever herd you need to straightedout you frieaking tinkerbell
2007-05-13 17:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Bi attitude...good luck!!
2007-05-13 17:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by ewc_in2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋