i have had a smoking fetish that has developed over the last 10 years, but haven't recognized it until the last 3 years because i've been able to deny it in my head for so long. if i see girls smoking, especially my age or younger, i get extremely turned on. this is also what causes me to masturbate a lot (once every day to 2 days), and thats even something i don't want to do at all. i think this fetish is very unhealthy for me and i don't want it to affect my future in any way. my opinion of this, along with most of yours, it's horrible and i would never tell anyone. i wouldn't smoke either, especially since i'm a health freak. is there anything i can do to help get rid of this fetish, even if it takes awhile? i won't stop masturbating until these evil thoughts go away, and i just want to stop feeling like a dirtbag.
2007-05-13 16:30:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hypnosis has been proven to get rid of these unwanted fetishes.
2007-05-13 16:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Indiana James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is harmless and even benficial. No need to stop doing that.
Try taking a look at some slightly older women who smoke, and you'll get really turned off. Their skin gets wrinkled, their fingers are stained yellow, and they cough a lot and can't do anything interesting because they are in such lousy health. Picture the "cool" young smokers coughing their guts out and wheezing -- it's what is in their future, and it's not pretty.
Don't worry about masturbating, but get over thinking that smoking is sexy -- it's really gross and disgusting to smoke but normal and healthy to jerk off.
2007-05-14 03:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever kissed someone about 5 minutes after they finished smoking? Pretty disgusting. They smell bad and taste worse. That might do it for you. If not, get a couple of cigarettes and put them in a plastic water bottle for a few days with about 2 inches of water. If you can get a few used cigarette butts, that's even better and more realistic. Anyway, check on your bottle in a few days. That's what a smoker's insides look and smell like.
Anyway, smoking might seem sexy but its an illusion. It's really quite gross and unpleasant.
2007-05-14 05:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at a lot of pictures of the negative side-effects of smoking, such as cancer, yellow fingernails, etc. This looks terrible and you won't want to see it!
Just think of what those girls will look like when they're old and dying of cancer.
Personally, I think your smoking fetish comes from an oral fixation. You may just have a desire for oral stimulation or oral sex. If you have a partner, consider tying the images of smoking with oral sex when you perform/receive it, so you will have fulfilled your desire.
2007-05-13 20:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know someone who would swear by hypnosis (I don't know much about it) and know someone who got help from a therapist who specializes in it-- thebreakthroughclinic.com
2016-07-30 15:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋