My husband has two wives and we have to keep it secret from a lot of people. I don't know why people have to get so mean about it :(
2007-05-13 16:03:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
2007-05-13 16:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
I think its alright if he takes good care of both. This would give the wives some freedom when he alternates between them. If he is financially not dependant on them, why should it be immoral? Hes not taking advantage of them to work to support him. I think its safer to know who hes with all the time than having to look for him from pub to pub. Dont you think so? Why bother about other people? If they dont feel uncomfortable they dont have to come to you. You are already busy with two families as it is. The most important thing is for the two families to be very close and you dont care if the world is gossipping (probably from envy).
2007-05-13 16:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Vico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's immoral at all. Some folks are meant for one person and some need more. But I do think it's an incredible feat of astronomical responsibility and balance! And the only reason the government has a problem with it is because it creates a tax nightmare for the IRS
2007-05-13 16:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by SloBoMo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immoral No. You do what you do and it's at the end an arrangement between you (the wife) your husband and the other wife ! ( Yet I don't know if you enjoy such an arrangement - I am assuming you do accept it ! )
Keeping it a secret it's your decision, But it's all about who your friends are , and surroundings. If you're surrounded by "radical christians who will certainly judge you" or any other " fundamentalistic religion including Jewish or islamic" you're in for a challenge !
People are ignorant of the things they don't know about.
2007-05-13 16:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Vee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is immoral!!( why the secret?) for all of the years we have heard of this....why have we not heard of wives having multiple husbands??? it`s all about having a wife and a mistress or two..or three...the man having it all and women being submissive.i have a serious problem with that...what vows would you say?...certainly not anything to do with loyalty..or monogamy..or trust..or anything for that matter. sorry, but i think it`s all about the sex and the man.
2007-05-13 16:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by heather h 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is called bigamy and here in the United States it is illegal. I would never ever share my man with anyone else it is twisted and wrong immorally. It puts women in a bad light, and that is never right! I simply do not understand anyone who would put up with that kind of behaivor from a man.
2007-05-13 16:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible does say that man should have only one wife, and plus, why would you want to share your husband with someone else? What's the purpose of being married to that person if they (or you) are going to be with other people, too? The whole reason for getting married is to be together as "one" not one two and three!
2007-05-13 16:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by ?~GotLove~? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not! if you're OK with it and can cope...if HE'S ok with it and can cope...if SHE'S (the other wife) ok with it and can cope...then why ever not??!! Plus, some religions allow this so i guess it depends on where you are and your religion. EVen so, morality doesnt come into this! killing/rape/slander/adultery is immoral but if it is something that makes all three of you happy and harms no one then it cant be immoral...
just do what makes you chirpy!
2007-05-13 16:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by amphetamine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It goes against everything God said about marriage. But, then, I said before that I don't judge. I'm against multiple wives, so I'll be sure not to do that myself.
And I hope you're kidding.
2007-05-13 16:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Immoral? no. Moronic? yes. Two wives, two mothers in law.
2007-05-13 16:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most men have a hard time keeping one woman happy, let alone two, but if that's what your in to, full steam ahead!!!!
2007-05-13 16:07:39 · answer #11 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋