He waits until I am gone and then he stays online looking at other womens profiles. They all seem to be in our area or state. He laughs at me when I confront him or he either denies the fact that he is doing it. should I be concerned?
2007-05-13 13:57:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take it from experience YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
Do not let his lies fool you.
Unless you have cat burglurar that breaks into your home jsut to look at online profiles.
Get a keylogger and have every keystroke he types logged so you will really know what the heck he is doing!
Get your ducks in a row and be ready to end things if he does not stop.
Cyber cheating is cheating
and your history on the pc is not lying!
2007-05-13 14:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he feel the need to look for another women when he has you? You have discussed your concerns to him and he continues regardless of how you feel. How would he feel if you did the same thing? I would be concerned of his intentions. Is he communicating with the females? There is a reason for his behavior and it is not appropriate. He should have stayed single if his interest wasn't with you and is with various other women. Furthermore, there is a lot to say of his search in local areas!!!! Does he have a profile on the site? It sounds like you are getting some warning signals. Pay attention to them!
2007-05-13 21:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by RT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how far he is taking it. If he is doing more than looking, if he chatting in an inappropriate manor or even meeting up with these people he meets on line then yes you have a serious problem. If he was doing anything like this he wouldn't tell you of course and that makes it hard to really get the truth. If he is denying it and you know that he is doing it for sure then it doesn’t make anything else he tells you very credible. why would he lie about it if he had nothing to hide? You should really talk to him about this and if it bothers you tell him to stop. I think your husband should respect your wishes and how you feel. Personally I know if I saw my fiancé doing something like that on line and then lying to me about it, I would definitely question whether or not we should be getting married. Trust is very important, and if he is denying what he is doing then you have to wonder what else he could be lying about. You have to get to the bottom of it and find out for sure how far this is going, you can’t sit there silently and end up being hurt in the end. Deal with the issue now. Even if his actions have not gone as far but he is still showing interest in other women on line it would make any wife concerned, and you have every right to be. If he is doing it find out why he feels the need to, and if he talks to any of theses women. A lot of men look at pictures of other women on the Internet and it could be merely a sexual attraction, which also is not abnormal. But if its more then that then it can be a problem.
Good luck.
2007-05-13 21:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be harmless but on the other hand it could damage your relationship. Have you told him that this bothers you? If so then he is disrespecting you by going on line looking at other women on here when he knows this is bothering you. I would be rather disturbed if my husband was looking at profiles all the time behind my back and especially if it was in our area. I would have him put a stop to it before he goes even further.
2007-05-13 21:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be for he is wrong! what is he looking for? he has no bussiness checking out the meat market married and committed to you! It is nothing for him to be laughing about when it comes to your feelings. This is disrespectfull and rude on his part. I would put a stop to it or else.....there is no need for him to be tempting himself to possibly hook up with another woman. This is how things start on the net because it is easy to find someone and makes cheating very easy when someone wants something different. You have every reason to worry about a husbands behavior when he is playing with fire!! Why does he wait untill you are gone? Probably becausee he is to intrested in what he is doing and is up to no good. Bring thee ax down good and hard and don't allow him to play this game.......because in the end you will get hurt and he allready sees no harm in what he is doing. He is emotionally cheating on you and when the right one comes along that is the ONE he will physically cheat. Get him off now. good luck sweetie.
2007-05-13 21:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be concerned. How else do u think cheating start.......... How did you find out he is looking at women's profile online? I mean if he denies it then show him the evidence.....
2007-05-13 21:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very concerned, a happily married man does not look for other woman on line. He is searching for other "opportunities." Confront him...
2007-05-13 22:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Shabby_Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. What kinda women?
Porn? Church type? Single ones?
Maybe you should pay attention to him and wear leather tight clothes, and boots. Talk nasty to him.
Change the sheets to satin.
Don't wear underwear. Look like a whore once in a while and maybe he'll pay more attention to YOU.
2007-05-13 21:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you should be concerned and no doubt more than a little hurt.
2007-05-13 21:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be very concerned
2007-05-13 21:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋